My wife is very selfish in sex with me, she gets me to have sex when she desires even when I am fast asleep and tired but never allows me when I am in mood, what should I do? I am totally frustrated. Will extramarital sex amount to infidelity in my case?
2007-04-24 19:10:15 · 18 answers · asked by ranush 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes definitely extramarital sex amounts to infidelity in your case. This matter regarding sexual relationship between you two should be sorted out mutually not here in yahoo questions. If you find it difficult to convince her take her to a marriage counselor or sex counselor & get the things sorted out between you two. Don’t indulge in extramarital sex as it can be bad for your health as well your matrimonial home.
2007-04-24 19:21:48 · answer #1 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When there is a problem, it is always advisable to try and solve it through mutual discussion first. Why don't you seriously talk to your wife about your problem? Extramarital sex is never known to help to solve a marital problem. It just adds one more to the pile. And in your case, there appears to be no justification for that, as your wife is not unfaithful to you.
2007-04-25 10:30:57 · answer #2 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has the sex, and she pleases u, it is only the timing that is different. U must orient her to your timing, just as u teach babies about morning and night, when to sleep and when to play. Once she is properly trained, she will bring u a lot of happiness.
Thinking about extramarital sex will only bring a boxful of problems, of a different kind. Better settle for the known devil instead of an unknown angel, and orient her to your needs and time.
2007-04-25 02:16:18 · answer #3 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, an extra-marrital affair would be infidelity on your part. Have you tried sitting down and discussing your feelings with your wife? This would be a step in the right direction. You could also try marriage counseling if she refuses to take your feelings into consideration.
2007-04-25 02:14:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh yes, extramarital sex is definatly infidelity. Have you considered telling her you need more sex? Come right out with what your needs are.
2007-04-25 02:12:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless "extramarital" is your hand, yes. Try talking to her and basically understanding that it is typically harder for a woman to "get in the mood". You could try things to help her "get in the mood". Full body massage(turned ******) is one of the best ways to relax us into wanting more than we thought we did.
2007-04-25 02:19:44 · answer #6 · answered by Nijmeh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think "extramarital sex" and "infidelity" are synonyms. She's literally got you by the balls, eh? What happens if you refuse?
2007-04-25 02:15:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for her moods. When you are desperate, why should feel annoyed, at being woken up in the midst of your sleep. Sex is worth the sleep that you sacrifice. Try and synchronise your desires with hers. You are lucky in that you have a partner who will wake you up, in the dead of the night, to quench her fire.
2007-04-25 07:49:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start following her around the house while punching the clown. That should just about do it. Whenever I have a problem with someone I just follow them around and punch the clown. That move can pretty much resolve all of lifes problems.
2007-04-25 02:14:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is its you who was foolish to marry - Man one night stands are the best and absolute wham bhan tanku ma'am. - you could have sex whenever you want also the variety and choice is more!!
Boy - if you try ot force sex with your wife she could file a marital rape. If you've sex outside she could file either bigamy or adultry!!
So basically you've ruined your sexual life!!
2007-04-26 15:00:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋