i knwo my co- worker for a year and finaly i asked her out . she said that she is flatterd and then said not intrested.. so what is that mean .. i suggest to recieve answers from females. thanks
2007-04-24 19:04:18 · 15 answers · asked by Tamim Z 2 in Dining Out ➔ Other - Dining Out
She is Flattered that you think she is attractive and that you had the nerve to ask her out. But, even so, no thank you. Don't pick at her, just be friendly. If in the future she is interested, she will tell you. You don't want to seem desperate.
2007-04-27 07:11:00 · answer #1 · answered by brutally honest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take it personally. She is probably just being smart and objective. Good for her!
I learned my lesson about dating at work with my very first job and I would never, ever date a man that I worked with again no matter how tempting it was. I would try to discourage any friend that might consider it too.
The odds of the relationship turning into a lasting one is slim and working with someone that you are no longer in a relationship with is distracting at the very least. I broke up with the guy and he made my life at work miserable. Then he became the boss! I was outta there.
A friend and co-worker dated and then married a man she worked with. Later they divorced. She wishes she listened to me now.
2007-04-24 19:32:44 · answer #2 · answered by melancholybebe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is flattered because she feels special, but unfortunately she isn't ever going to say yes. That doesn't mean stop trying with other girls. You win some you loose some. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Keep your chin up! And if you get turned down ten more times, we can go on a date!
2007-04-24 19:31:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either she really isn't interested, or she doesn't date co-workers. A lot of people just won't date a co-worker and nothing you can do or say will change that.
I would keep looking. Keep her as a friend.
2007-04-25 02:59:22 · answer #4 · answered by star_lite57 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a man and I'm telling you never date a co-worker. here is why. if it does not work and it wont! you are in for alot of bad feelings and heart ache. trust me!
2007-04-24 19:09:38 · answer #5 · answered by toddone03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read answers of females, I am man.
2007-04-24 19:15:13 · answer #6 · answered by A RAHMAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eww nd if u looked like that cartoon beside ur name i would totaly not go out with u eww gross...or i would tell u to meet me there and like never show up...
2007-04-24 19:27:02 · answer #7 · answered by GuCciBoOty 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She doesn't want to go out with you - but is being nice about it, letting you down gently. So please put any further thoughts out of your mind.
2007-04-24 19:08:09 · answer #8 · answered by happy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She likes you but not in 'that' way. Keep looking buddy!
2007-04-24 19:07:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just keep it professional. Don't keep pestering her to go out. It is just uncomfortable.
2007-04-24 19:07:32 · answer #10 · answered by Ladeeda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋