My group of friends are HORRIBLE. They used to be better people but their starting to go down a bad road...
I need help on making new friends I'm soo shy.
2007-04-24 17:23:40 · 8 answers · asked by I love you 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You are in a tough spot -- but good for you for recognizing it!
You will really have to try to make new friends, in spite of your shyness. I assume you are still in school, so maybe join a club or group that interests you. Perhaps you can find friends at church.
PRACTICE not being shy. You will feel silly at first, but believe me, it will help. Practice looking yourself in the eye (in a mirror) and saying "Hello. My name is..." A lot of the time that's all that's needed to start a conversation.
Don't forget, most people LOVE to talk about themselves, so a good starting place is asking them about themselves. Where they go to school, what their favorite subjects are, do they have pets...things like that.
Good luck!
2007-04-24 17:48:14 · answer #1 · answered by luvrats 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with being shy.And the best part is you notice the change in your friends which means you as a person are growing and realize good from bad. Use your own and best judgment and friends will come to you. If you are shy just say hi to someone. If they want to be a friend they will. Just take your time. You didn't make the other friends overnight did you? It takes time to build a good relationship with friends. You learn to trust one another and everything else just sorta falls into place. You will do fine!
2007-04-24 17:43:23 · answer #2 · answered by aintmisbehavinat48 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 03:39:15 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh that sucks- you have no idea how many people i know that are in that situation
(about 3)
anway- here's what you do- start by talking to other people- then once you feel a tiny bit more connected to someone- just go and hang out with them for ONE DAY ONLY. they next day, go back to your group of friends and see how they react. if they don't care, it will be a lot easier to get away from them. if they do care, you still have to get out of there, or else you will look back over your terrible life and just wish that you had hung out with differen't people in middle/highschool- trust me.
2007-04-24 17:29:03 · answer #4 · answered by KB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have an interest, join a club/group that has those activities such as the Sierra Club for hiking, the Audubon Society for birdwatching, etc.
2007-04-24 17:43:04 · answer #5 · answered by Constant Reader 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've just made a good start. you've admitted they're going the wrong way and you want new friends. now, stop hanging out with them and start by doing things you want to do and you'll meet new friends who have similar interests and values.
2007-04-24 17:51:56 · answer #6 · answered by roansaga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey i can be your friend if u want me to. or just join groups like:
www.myspace.com
www.xanga.com
www.livejournal.com
www.aol.com
I prefer myspace.u can make lots of new friends all over the world.
2007-04-24 17:33:07 · answer #7 · answered by Goofball Chucha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to open up to new friends and ideas.
2007-04-24 17:41:54 · answer #8 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋