i want to have an aborrtion i know its bad but i have to look at my future but i dnt have money to pay for it and neither does the father
2007-04-24 16:35:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
sometimes things happen for a reason you might have to grow up faster than youwanted to it happens to the best of us. Trust its not as bad as it seems. Nothings ever free the least you would pay is 300 dollars and they give discounts if you are in school.
2007-04-24 17:18:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what to tell you but I will tell you that it is not a good decision to have an abortion. There are so many couples out there that can't have any children why not just give the baby up for adoption when the time comes. How old are you? Are you just more afraid of what your parents will say? Speaking from experience I got pregnant at 16 had my son at 17 he did not mess up my future at all. I have talked to many girls who have never forgiven themselves for having an abortion. Think about this long & hard first.
2007-04-24 23:50:47 · answer #2 · answered by Kim 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
don't listen to these people trying to make u feel like a bad person! I been in your situation! i had to look at my future too! people say adoption is so easy! but how can u you carry a baby for nine months and give it away like its a piece of clothing! it will forever hunt u! anyways abortion is not free! its pretty expensive! i paid $440 for mine!call your local planned parenthood they might help you out in some ways! i was lucky my boyfriend paid for everything! but i hope the best for you! do what u really feel is right! don't let other people make up your mind for you! after all its your body!
2007-04-25 01:38:04 · answer #3 · answered by loveme 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The closest to free would be planned parenthood. If that's really what you want to do. Just remember you'd make someone's dream come true if you put this baby up for adoption. but it is YOUR choice. And while you're at planned parenthood they'll offer you a special deal for birth control. take it. cuz when you have this abortion it'll make you feel horrible for the rest of your life and you don't want it to happen again
2007-04-25 00:28:27 · answer #4 · answered by Xander and Marie's Mommy 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Please, don't let everyone put you on a guilt trip. Your local social services office will have information to help you with this. And yes, Planned Parenthood can also help. This is your choice. You decide what is best.
ps- having an abortion will not prevent your from having any more kids in your future and will NOT cause health problems. I am healthy with 2 kids (well 1 child and 7 mo prego with 2nd)
2007-04-24 23:55:37 · answer #5 · answered by Ghost Writer 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Then dont have an abortion.
You already said you know its bad to have an abortion, so DONT DO IT.
You'll live with regret for the rest of your life, knowing that you killed your baby, and there is no way around it, esp. if you are alreayd saying you know it is wrong!
Carry the baby to term, and give it up for adoption if you absolutely have to! Then the baby has a chance at life and you can go on about yours...either way you will have "your future" but this way, you arent paying someone to help you murder your child.
Yes I'm being blunt, but I really want you to get this!
I get the feeling you are both very young..so I do hope you listen!
2007-04-24 23:47:11 · answer #6 · answered by amandaa_ok2 1 · 2⤊ 3⤋
NOPE. u have to pay for your mistakes. PAY get it? there is no abortion clinic that is totally FREE. Ask your parents for $250 and get him to ask his parents for $250. then go to planned parenthood and they will give u some advice .
2007-04-25 00:08:14 · answer #7 · answered by Not here 2 make friends 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try your local Planned Parenthood. I don't know if it's entirely free, but I believe they will work with you based on your income.
Good luck!
2007-04-24 23:48:41 · answer #8 · answered by Morning Glory 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am unsure of any but, you may contact your local Health Dept usually their services are free or atleast lower priced. They may also be able to direct you somewhere else in reference to this issue.
2007-04-24 23:46:52 · answer #9 · answered by SAB 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
YOUR KILLING YOUR BABY.....THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT THERE THAT WANT A BABY SO BAD AND WE CAN'T BE BLESSED WITH THEM THEN THERE ARE PEOPLE THAT WANT A ABORTION CAUSE THEY THINK IT WILL MESS UP THERE FUTURE THEN YOU KNOW WHAT DONT HAVE SEX IF YOU DONT WANT A BABY
2007-04-25 03:00:47 · answer #10 · answered by Stacey 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋