alright, fellow answerers, give me your opinion on this please?

Question

This stranger asked for my number when he was hanging out in a BAR with his friends. He's 24 and I'm 18. I don't know if it's safe to go out with him. maybe he just want to get some se x x out of me, but I have never dated before and I have doubts. He SEEMED nice but people hanging out in bars, plus not even knowing him and getting hit on. should I go out with him IF he calls? where should we go? what tim of day, cuz I'm afraid at night, he'll get all horney and stuff.

Answer 1

all guys want sex, but just don't give it. f he mention it during the first date, you know he's not good. I don't know his intentions about going with people so much younger, but depends on the two couple, if they're mature. as to dating strangers, always be cautious. go to public places, try to go some where that you're familiar with. hon, learn now about the dating world, yep strangers may not be too scary. anyone can rape you, even people you know for years, but don't be paranoid. give him and you a chance.

Answer 2

Yep the old catch-22, only good place to socialize outside of church is the old bars and club scence. The only problem with that is you can only trust about 1/4 of the people in it and thats only so far. Follow your instincts they got you to the age of 18. If it just felt like a guy out for some sex and thats not your cup of tea, don't do anything with him. Now if your not competely sure then meet up at a public place for brunch or lunch. If he is geniune in his intentions then it doesn't matter were you meet, he'll be about it. But if he starts giving you static about it then you know somethings up. This isn't a cure all, but think along these lines, if he isn't welling to work just for your attentions, then he won't work much for anything you've got and is suspect as just a dog looking for a bone....