I accidentally got her pregnant and I'm not ready for a child!!!
But heres the problem she is 26 and married and i'm only 17 and so screwed!!!! What should I DO??!!!!
2007-04-24 16:10:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Find the nearest bridge and jump off head first... Hope for death =)
Just kidding... I don't know though, that's a fu*ked up situation. 9 years older than you and married? You better hope her husbands a puss and you can take him =X
Oh and getting a job's definitely a good idea, seeing as how she might try and screw you over for child support. Oh to be young and horny.
2007-04-24 16:16:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry sweetie, but the age of consent is 16, you can't get her on statutory rape. If she wants to keep the baby and you are found to be the father via paternity test, then you will be obligated to support this child until it's 18.
I was 17 when I got pregnant with my oldest. It's tough, but it's not the worst thing that ever happened in my life. I absolutely love my son and am thankful every day for having him in my life.
With sex comes responsibility... We all realize when we decide to have sex that something like this can happen and if we are adult enough to play, we are adult enough to pay.
Your best bet is to change your thinking... It doesn't matter if you are ready to be a father or not, I was on the pill and got pregnant with my son... I certainly wasn't ready to be a mother, but I've done a damn good job of it. You can be a great father, you can love that baby with every fiber of your being, and you will be just fine. Congratulations!
2007-04-24 23:56:23 · answer #2 · answered by serenedreams28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, sweetie. How did you get yourself in this situation? Oh yea, you slept with a women almost 10 years older than you who's married. If you thought you're man enough to pull you penis out and have sex, than you're man enough to father a child. Or now you have no choice. But my question for you is, why didn't you think first and not have sex with a married women, or at least put a condom on. And how do you know it is your child. I'm not telling you to deny the baby, but there is a possibility that it is her husband's child, if they've had sex in the same time. But if she hasn't, then HELLO DADDY! Also, you need to talk to your parents and her TOGETHER! Think what you guys are going to do, and how to deal with it. And does her husband know the child she's bearing is yours? Well best of luck, and it might be time to get a part time job, if you already don't have one.
2007-04-24 23:22:22 · answer #3 · answered by Army Wife 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all I hope u learned a lesson about a something called birth control and second of all how do u know its urs and not her husbands? but I think the only thing u can do at this point is discuss it with her and tell her ur not ready for a child and see what solution the 2 of u can come up with and for future try to fin a single one ur own age and use protection
2007-04-24 23:51:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you should not have been having unprotected sex, you are so "screwed."
You should not be having sex with a married woman, nor she with you. I hope her husband doesn't decide to call the police, this could be a big legal mess for both of you.
If she decides to have the baby you will be financially responsible for the child until the age of eighteen, so this will be an expensive lesson for you.
Use a condom and stay away from married women.
2007-04-24 23:19:57 · answer #5 · answered by Sue F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she is married, it could possibly be her husbands. What are you doing messing around with a 26 year old married woman when you're only 17? Maybe you shouldnt have sex if you arent responsible for the possible outcome/consiquences...I am sorry you feel trapped.. Maybe you should stand up, become a man, and start taking control of your life.. Finish up high school, get a job, and start taking care of what you started
2007-04-24 23:18:44 · answer #6 · answered by Ash 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do in this case would be to tell the truth. Honestly, that's what you should do. By lying about it, you'd only be creating more problems. By telling the truth, people will get hurt, but imagine the hurt involved in trying to keep the baby a secret or hide the fact that it is your child. After all, honesty is the best policy. Good luck!
2007-04-24 23:15:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you are the dad. I had sex with this girl when I was 16 (she was also 16), and she got pregnant and I was really worried, until at the hospital they found out that the baby wasnt mine. Turned out the whore had been sleeping with another guy and he was stuck with child support bills.
2007-04-25 00:58:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
is she even gonna tell her husband? are you sure its yours? If she was cheating on him, most likely you aren't the only one, plus I'm sure she still had sex with her hubby. talk to her and find out what she's gonna do, after the baby is born, make sure you get a DNA test before you sign the birth certificate. Think about getting a job and use protection next time!!!!
2007-04-25 08:58:48 · answer #9 · answered by Olivia's Mama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can't really say that you're the father, unless she wants to be charged for statutory rape. Then again, that depends on where you live. If you're lucky, she'll just say that it's her husband's, unless of course you want something to do with this child, then maybe you should say something.
Just wait and see what happens.
2007-04-24 23:45:37 · answer #10 · answered by Zoe S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋