Well I've been having a series of nightmares, they all lead up to the same point. If *Jenny* hates me, my life sucks. She made me a better person. but for some reason unknown she hates me now.
Is there a way I can make her not hate me?
If not what in the world am I supposed to do everyone can tell that when I have a frown on my face it's got some connection to *Jenny*.
* * not real name
2007-04-24 16:07:03 · 5 answers · asked by I am not ok 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
why is there not a section for middle schoolers?
if shes ignoring you, good riddance, hate to tell you honey in 15 to 20 yrs you wont even remember what she looks like and you wont be best friends forever
2007-04-24 16:10:51 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ok....I really want to say something like 'its ok she doesn't hate you' or 'she will always be there for you' but the truth is that over the last year I've learned that even the closest of friends can turn on you. You cannot let your life depend on your friendship with her. As time goes on people change and things can get in the way of friendship. If she hates you it either something you did or she is just in a time in her life were she just needs her space, even from you. I guess what Im trying to say is friends are great to have, but you cant count on them forever. and who knows, maybe your life really is better without her, maybe not. I can relate to how you feel in a way. I had this friend "Liz" since I was three and we were the best of friends. I always thought I couldn't be happy without her. She always told me that my family was like her family and the other way around. I told her I was glad because I dont like any of my friends being "friendly" with my brothers because it would make me feel uncomfortable. She new this. Last year I found out that she slept with one of my brothers. Well that hit me like a ton of bricks and after that it became wierd to even look at her. She betrayed my trust and even lied to my face when I asked her about it and I can always tell when she lies. Now I realize my life is so much better without her and even other people notice Im alot happier now. Anyway just watch yourself and dont let your happiness depend on other people because somewhere down the line your going to get hurt.
2007-04-24 23:33:35 · answer #2 · answered by Livia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pick up and move on. don't place so much importance on one person. like someone else said you won't even remember this in a few years and if you do you'll think... what was i thinking!
2007-04-24 23:20:51 · answer #3 · answered by Cindy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg i have a very very similar problem. except my now x best friend is turning almost every1 against me luckily i now know who my true friends r
2007-04-24 23:16:02 · answer #4 · answered by AzGirl325 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick her to the curb and find a new friend.
2007-04-24 23:13:53 · answer #5 · answered by deb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋