if i say i have a problem, are you only going to tell me EVERYTHING'S GOING TO BE ALRIGHT?

Question

is there anything better you can tell me than that?

Answer 1

Nope. Honestly, everything won't be all right 'til you make it right. Whether that means making a compromise, cutting dead weight that drags you down (people, work, or otherwise), or changing the way you live your life. That's not to say that any of this is easy, but that doesn't mean it might not be necessary. Some people wait for an intervention and some people go on thinking everything's ok, but it seems obvious from your question you've realized it's not, or maybe this is just a funny question. Hopefully the joke's not on me and I hope you can figure out your problem.

Answer 2

I'd say No, and yes. We make most of our own problems. One of the biggest is supposing that everything should always be "alright". I'd say Use your wit to solve the problem (often by turning it upside down). Try to change what you can - which may be the problem itself, or any of its component parts including yourself. Look for some underlying question or problem you haven't seen which would solve the problem - something it depends on for its existence. If you can't think of a way to solve it take courage, and live with it by embracing what is. Or change your objectives, agenda, priorities so it's no longer a problem. Learn the insight to know some things can be changed and some cannot, and the wisdom to tell the difference. And practice embracing living with the consequences, which depend on your own response - which is usually up to you. In everything I ever did, from business to horses and art, if I had an intolerable problem and couldn't see a solution, I changed something, anything, and dealt with the result. It didn't always produce a result I liked, but at least I had broken the knot, and I could sort the tangle from there.

Answer 3

No,how can I say everything is going to be alright if I don't know what the problem is? Not everything in life has to be alright. Life is full of problems that have to be worked out. I would tell you that I was there if you needed me. If you chose to confide in me then I would do whatever I was able to do to help you. If you needed me to I would be the shoulder you cried on, the arms that held you and comforted you, or I could simply sit there and listen offering advice as needed.

Answer 4

People not hearing the issue, being superficial, or not being able to address the issue will often say: "Everything will be alright" in hopes of at the very least trying to leave you with some hope that your situation will improve.....


Talk to the right people and ask the right questions to get the right answers you seek..... Or tell them what you'll looking for (i.e.: support, just to vent, help solving the problem...) to get the response you want....


Either way, only you have the power to make the choices that will help you.

Answer 5

Hell No! Saying that does not solve anything. I hate it when I am going through deep life **** and someone well-meaning throws that at me. Or, they start funnelling this huge overwhelming mile-long inpenatrable wall of liquid fire down into bare, plain-and-simple pea size nitty gritty! It doesn't work. it's offensive, really, that they would think that after 5 minutes hearing about my heart-sucking reality, they can cure me with a few words or a way simplified explanation which is nowhere even in the same continent as the problem! NO. I'd want someone to just listen to me. Say "Man, that sucks." if they have to say anything at all. Feel overwhelmed with me. Cry with me. Validate my pain. Saying "everything's going to be all right." usually is just putting a bandaid on a gushing compound fracture!

Answer 6

No, I would not tell you that because "alright" is never guaranteed...but what I can guarantee you is that it will not always be as bad. And, you are the only person who is in control of making everything alright. We cannot all sit around hoping for our luck to change...give fate a little shove and jump start your healing process. Take care.

Answer 7

Of course there's something else, provided you let me know what the problem is. In any case, everything most times turn out alright, but that is that always the appropriate answer at all. If I have knowledge to help you resolve your problem then it doesn't help you at all to tell you that everyting's going to be alright.

So please feel free to tell me what the problem is.

Answer 8

well ....the best way to escape a problem is to solve it!!!So i would rather tell you to solve it rather than telling every thing's gonna be alright because how will any thing be alright unless you work it out!! and i wont even tell you that god is there and stuff like that because god also helps only those who help themselves.

Answer 9

Everything IS going to be alright because things work out the way the universe wants them to. You can do things to delay the inevitable, but it will work itself out in the end! For whatever unknown reason, everything will be as it should be, with or without our interference.

Answer 10

Some people on hear would tell you everything be fine
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