Is it normal???

Question

To be married and have a sexual dream about another man? What does this mean if anything??

Answer 1

It is perfectly normal in my opinion. I'm not a shrink though. Acting upon it in real life would mean something, but we all know that. I'd even bet you may think about others when you are with your spouse and awake if you know what I mean. Though not ideal that is normal too and no sin. I wouldn't go telling your husband though unless marital stress is your goal in life.

By the way...How was I?...Sorry just had to add that.

Answer 2

Anything that happens in your head is perfectly fine! Anything that you do because of it, may not be!

Everyone has fantasy dreams about all kinds of things and most likely they don't mean anything. Your a human being after-all...your going to find other men besides your husband attractive and your subconscious may just play with that attraction in your dreams. However, that doesn't mean you should make that dream a reality or read into it that you have feelings for this other man. Just keep the dreams to yourself and chalk it up to your mind just having fun being human.

Hope this helps. Chemtutor101

Answer 3

It means you are a normal healthy and somewhat unsatisfied woman. The fact is that you have probably gotten sort of staid and rehearsed in your sex life, and it has left you unsatisfied and open to fantasies about other men. Don't worry about it, both situations are normal, after you have been married awhile.

Try experimenting with some things you never really thought of doing sexually before. If you can spice your sex life with your husband up some it will probably put an end to it.

Answer 4

It's more common than not for a married woman to have "those kind of dreams" about other guys. They can even be guys you'd never think of being with in your waking life. Those dreams can be symbolism. If it's someone you know well (a friend,ex.) it could be that your Hubby is lacking a quality that that other person has. I wouldn't be too worried about it. It's not adultary and will be forgotten in a few days or so.

Answer 5

I hope it's normal. I've had sex dreams about other men, quite a few actually. I even had dreams of having sex with women when I was pregnant and I'm not even Bi. I don't think it necessarily means anything; I wouldn't worry about it, unless you're unhappy of course.

Answer 6

Yes I think it is normal to have those type of dreams but I think its because you are not being satisfied at home. I dream about other men but never sexual dreams. I think you are not getting your needs met at home and desire to have them met. Before you stray, talk with your husband and let him know that you are not happy because he is ignoring you and not giving you what you need physically or emotionally. Then if he can't up his game, you need to walk away and find someone that will............good luck

Answer 7

It is is ok,it is perfectly normal can't be helped and it means nothing I am in most womans dreams except Ellen Degeneriss and Rosie Odonnels, but that another story

Answer 8

Yes it is normal and it doesn't mean anything I dream of Triple H all the time but for God sakes in real life I don't want him I want who I am with don't worry bout it.

Answer 9

It means nothing. Suggestion, live out the dream with your hubby.

Answer 10

It is not only normal, to some degree it is healthy as long as you don't act on it. It means you are a healthy normal woman.