is it okay to make-out on the first date ?

Question

i have a friend who has a boyfriend that wants to go all the way with her. but she hasnt even made-out yet. what edvice should i give her ?

Answer 1

ummm.....a boyfriend and no first date yet, not really sure how that works, but okay. Other than that I don't have a prob with making out, but I don't think people should "run the bases" on a first date, it should be more of a stepping stool, not a slippery slop. Hope that makes sense.

Answer 2

The only one that rally benefits from going all the way is the guy. The girl has the pregnancy risk and the emotional baggage. The guy will either feel guilty and ignor her or talk loose about her.

Tell her to wait until she finds the right guy...she will know. This is not a merit badge for girl scouts that she needs to earn

Answer 3

I know I will sound old-fashioned and I HATE to feel old. But, I have teenagers myself now and, believe it or not, I remember what it was like to BE a teenager. The advice that you should give her is PLEASE DON'T JUST MAKE-OUT or do ANYTHING because she thiks it will make the guy like her. He will just disrespect her. I have a teenage son and i HEAR what they all say about girls. YEAH, the boys' goal is to get the girl to give it up. But, once they do, they are usually history. Don't even make out with a guy until you have been together for awhile. AND, make sure you let him know that you really care about him, but that is as far as you are willing to go for now!!! Making out and having sex with one guy after the other might make you feel desired and attractive for awhile, but when you grow up a bit, you realize that you made yourself look like a cheap ho :/ Have respect for yourself. Love will come in it's time, you can't find it and you can't FORCE it through temporary lust.

Answer 4

If the guy is really itching to go all the way with her soon, you should tell her not to make out with him on the first date- a real woman does not act like she's easy on the first date. And a real man would have respect for her for that, because it means she has respect for herself.

Answer 5

Keep the hands OUTSIDE the clothes on the first date... you don't want him to think you're too easy... he won't respect you if you put out after only a few dates... what's the rush? Oh yeah, hormones.... sometimes I forget (suppress) what it was like going through puberty. USE CONDOMS, for the love of God!! Use two or three if you have to.

Answer 6

All the way? Is this guy ateenager?
i cant stand it when guys just what to have sex all the time, they're so horny!

Dont let him take advantage of her and just start with the making out part but dont let it get any further than that or she'll regret it.

Answer 7

No I think that's a bit to wild, I mean it's the first date. What if everything goes down the drain after that? oh and I have this funny vid especially for this topic =). http://youtube.com/watch?v=V5-hN-0Agwg

Answer 8

that she has to take it at her own pace and not do anything just because she's feeling pressure from her boyfriend or peers. It's ok to make-out on your first date, so long as that's what you both want to do.

Answer 9

no she should wiat till the right second. like at the movies or at the beach or right befor she go's inside but don't let him melest you just kiss and go in.

Answer 10

how about dont let a guy take advantage of you. if she is not ready for that then this guy is obviously a jerk .... she should do thinks like when she is ready for it not because of some stupid guy