Ok me and my friend have been friends for like a year and since we got back from spring break she and my other friend have been acting like they dont like me or something. So everytime I try to talk to them they always act like they dont hear me and walk away. so last week I was so depressed and stuff. ( i know i shouldn't be but we was like sistahz) So then this week me and her have been cool but its like everytime she get around my other friend she act like she dont know me. I am trying to move on and just be okay but its like cuz we been gurls for a while its hard. and we have lockers right next to each other we in the same classes and we are on the track team together. so wat should I do please let me know!
2007-04-24 14:42:56 · 17 answers · asked by brownsugacookie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sit them both down and tell them what's going on and how you feel about it. Maybe they don't realize they're doing this. I found that most of the time people don't realize that they are ignoring someone when they are together.
2007-04-24 14:47:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something is bothering them. Have you asked them if you did anything to offend them? I wouldn't let it bother you too much. Try to make new friends but be civil to the other 2 girls. Just remember, girls are like that, 2 girls are fine hanging together but as soon as 3 get together the bs starts. It's been like that for generations and I don't think it will ever change. When they get into a fight with eachother the 1 friend will be calling you. Good luck and I hope everything works out for you.
2007-04-24 14:52:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try talking to her without your other friend. Try having a deep conversation and explain your point of veiw to her and your true feelings and how its affecting you.
Maybe its just your other friend that doesn't like you... or your other friend could have heard nasty rumors, etc and has a bad impression of you.
Don't be too overpowering and give your friends some distance when they are together and everything will work out fine.
And I know you've probably heard this a million times and might find it hard... but just try to shake it off girl, and don't be too hard on yourself. Things like this always happen -- and that means that things just weren't meant to be. Even though they may have been perfect at one point through your eyes.
2007-04-24 14:49:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not quite get it as to your sex. It sounds as if you are a female. Am i right?
Anyway why are you pressuring yourself i mean if that friend think of you the way you are thinking of her then you would not be asking this question in the first place. Obviously she is not looking at your friendship the way you are looking at it. Another thing do not allow yourself to be in love with another person that way, whether male or female. Humans will let you down, betray you, fail you and all manner of evil. Only Jesus never fail. Therefore take and look at everyone in a casual way.
2007-04-24 14:53:51 · answer #4 · answered by asha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your friend alone. Ask her what's up and if she gives you a bs answer, then dont bother being friends with her. If she seems to honestly be sorry, try again. If she does it again, forget her and get some real friends. But dont talk about her or the other girl or anything to stir up drama, it will only get worse. Good luck!!!
2007-04-24 15:03:11 · answer #5 · answered by addie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just come right out and ask what's up? Tell them you've noticed the difference and want to know why? If they're really your friends, they'll have no problem telling you. What happened during spring break? Anything that could trigger this?
2007-04-24 14:46:57 · answer #6 · answered by melissa_53105 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont mean to call your friends arrogant or anything........ but the same happened to me. This girl, we waz good friends, then she started acting like i was Incredibly stupid and stopped talking to me. She even deleted me from her MySpace friend list (for people who saw my other question http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070424183315AAGob37&r=w its not here but hint they have the same name its weierd) she is still not talking to me, though. I sorta think it's because in her mind, she's gotten to think that some things are more important than me. I say, through a big suprise party for them, but NOT at your house and NOT at a restuarant. That messes it up. I don't reccmomend a movie, but I So recommend Ice skating. Go to your public Ice sports complex and rent out some skates!
Hope it goes well
Reese
2007-04-24 14:49:36 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Reese is Blessed♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are in middle school. This is characteristic of the age. Friends turn on friends in a heart beat.
Be brave and make new friends. She is making choices that will only make you two grow apart.
2007-04-24 14:47:48 · answer #8 · answered by njspanteach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First address the issue with your friend... If you don't like her answer or believe her than move on. Real friends are hard to find. Fake friends are a dime a dozen
2007-04-24 14:48:38 · answer #9 · answered by jumilbu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe yooh should just talk to them...i know its kinda a sunday school answer but its the best thing...its like the only way yooh can sort things out...write a note if yooh dont feel comfortable talking to them right now ...but get it out in the open between yooh three.
2007-04-24 14:48:54 · answer #10 · answered by Elle A. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋