my mom read my diary and now she thinks im sexually active and im not. all i said was the boy was fine and i wouldnt mine seeing him naked ive never done anything too bad ive seen u no wuts before but ive never done ANYTHING!!!
im innocent from head to toe
im 15yrs old
Please help wut do i do to get her to trust me again?!?!?!?
2007-04-24 14:31:21 · 24 answers · asked by qutie2day 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
If you wrote that you wouldnt mind seeing him naked, that means to your mom that you are thinking sexually. Nothing bad about that, it just means her little girl is growing up.
Be patience with her, and assure her that you will tell her when you think about having sex.
2007-04-24 14:42:12 · answer #1 · answered by Grogan 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
All the rules to sucessfully hiding ur diary =) 1. ask her what she was looking for 2. i say keep ur diary on a computer with a password to access the document 3. make the password something no one would expect 4. never EVER tell or write down the password EVER 5. only write in it when no one is home or on the same floor as you 6. always X it out when u leave even for a second. it is easy to forget about it. 7. hide it under tons of folders 8. do ur best to not let people know it is on the computer good luck, didn't really answer the question, but it's pretty hard for people to find it this way =D
2016-05-18 00:19:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have a serious talk with your mother. Its her that should be worried about your trust now, not the other way around. diaries are private, period. You should tell her that what she saw was your own private thoughts, and she really should respect your privacy. tell her what you said here, that you havent done anything wrong, and you were writing down your feelings. put her mind at ease, that you will talk to her if things come up, but please to stay out of your diary, at 15, you deserve the right to your own private thoughts just as she does, and a diary is usually very important to a teen, i know it was for me.
2007-04-24 14:38:07 · answer #3 · answered by ♥mama♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well sometimes it can be a good thing or a bad thing for your parents to read your personal letters, such as a diary or a journal. I wouldn't consider this a bad thing, the only way you can gain her trust back is to prove that you are innocent as you say you are.
Stay out of trouble
Good Luck and God Bless!!
2007-04-24 15:03:05 · answer #4 · answered by ♫♪2 kids+1 wife=magical♪♫ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom used to do that to me to. Just tell her that you use your diary for all your personaly thoughts and feelings and just because you thought of someone naked doesn't mean you slept with them. Try to be very mature about it and just tell her that you were just playing around and you're not sexually active and don't get upset at her even if you are really angry about it. Try to be calm and collected and mature and that will go a long way with her. If you handle it in a mature way then she'll see that she can trust you. Hope it goes okay.
2007-04-24 14:38:30 · answer #5 · answered by blessed mommy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As a mom of a teen I would never read her diary. I had diaries myself and hated it when my mom would read them. Anyway, if you are telling the truth and haven't been sexual active, you shouldn't have anything to worry. Go to your mom and explain what you meant by what you wrote. Also assure her that you are not having sex. I would also let her know that you don't appriciate her reading your diary!
2007-04-24 14:36:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
From someone who had her journal read time and time again, Moms snoop alot! I am not sure what will restore her trust but all you can do is explain that you thought he was hot and thats all you ment. Tell her you're not intrested in having sex with him or anyone at the moment and wish that she would trust you.
2007-04-24 14:40:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mum does it all the time, Goes on my computer and checks around at my history, looks at my documents, Searches my room. All when Im not home, When i say this to her shes says she dosnt, Then I get proof and she has a go at my saying until im 18 and have moved out I cant have privacy. Im not even aloud to shut my door.
Find hiding places for all your stuff. Go sneaking in your mums room, That will teach her lol
2007-04-24 16:28:04 · answer #8 · answered by OhReally 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
whoa you shouldn't worry about her trusting you you did nothing wrong, it was her that was wrong. she read it and she was not suppose too. you writing something doesn't mean your gonna go out and do it trust me.. i have written (and drawn..) some of the most dirtiest things in my diaries but i would probably never do them even if i got the chance since im such a prude but thats besides the point. you did nothing wrong
2007-04-25 09:28:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
you have to earn her trust. its earned not given. Sit down and talk to her about what she read. But your really too young to be considering having sex your still a child. As long as you live under your parents roof you don't have a right to privacy. You can ask your mother to respect your privacy more but she doesn't have too. The fact that she did have to read your diary to find out whats going on in your life signals that you don't have a close relationship with her. A child should always feel comfortable to discuss anything with their parents! Good Luck.
2007-04-24 15:08:26 · answer #10 · answered by llllll_amanda_lllllll 6 · 0⤊ 4⤋