And....says no-one is in his life. Lies to his adult children, cries poor & is alone, only to marry someone 6 mos post divorce. Gives her a diamond & has a new Harley coming.
And the wife & kids felt so sorry for him prior to this knowledge the wife lets him has 25K more in the settlement. He makes so much money that after the 2006 taxes of which the wife gives him all the house mortgage & tax deductions he still owes 10K. After she finds out & asks for the money back, he & his new wife say she's harassing him.
2007-04-24 14:24:56 · 26 answers · asked by ♣Hey jude♣ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Interesting Joesph7 that you would assume the husband was mistreated & defend him.
2007-04-24 14:36:57 · update #1
Wife felt sorry because the husband had had cancer, lost his bladder & said he wanted to be alone. Reason for divorce.
2007-04-24 14:51:43 · update #2
You reap what you sow. I think his 2nd wife will be very simular to the 1st and he will make the same mistakes and more than likely find a #3 wife. Hes a NASTY bloke.
2007-04-24 14:43:24 · answer #1 · answered by Shaz 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like the wife needs to chalk it up to experience. What an ******** the ex is and what a nice person the wife is. What goes around comes around, just wait and see. The wife's kindness will be repaid somehow....maybe not by her ex, but certainly good things will happen for her. The wife could have made the divorce a lot harder than she did.....she felt compassion for the situation her ex was in....there is no crime in that. The ex is an absolute scoundrel and the wife should be happy that she is rid of the d'head. What a shocking role model for his children. He will learn the hard way....what he did will never be forgotten by his children and when he is old and expects some kind of love/loyalty from his children, he will get none. He is going to be the biggest loser in the long run. That is disgusting....I cant believe a man could do that to his wife and children......hes a heartless, stinking rotton mongrel. If there is anything legal the wife can do, then I would be doing it and, if I could, I would be taking him for every cent.
To the wife....I think you are wonderful and thoughtful and you will find a man much better than your husband ever was. When that happens, you will be glad you husband did what he did because you will be the happiest woman on this earth....just lets hope that the man of your dreams is rich too....lol
2007-04-24 14:38:17 · answer #2 · answered by rightio 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Something mat be awry, and my bet is the new wife only knows half the story.
Also, the husband probably never asked for that extra money - it is in the settlement. If the first wife just "felt sorry for him" and gave him more than she thought he was entitled to... well maybe he thought it seemed fair. So to ask for the money back now is to go back on the settlement, and unless the money was given to him under condition "if you make a lot of money in the next few years, you should pay it back", then the first wife should probably let it go. I doubt she will get the money, and it may have been as a result of a lot of work on the new wife's part that this money was made. It hardly seems fair on her to take away what she has worked for, too.
2007-04-24 14:31:10 · answer #3 · answered by Lineya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he lied in court that is perjury.. Clinton might have gotten off but I am sure the husband doesn't have as much clout. Have the wife call the lawyer they might be able to call him on it and the court takes a dim view of under oath liars.
2007-04-24 14:30:41 · answer #4 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
oh hon you have been betrayed just like me.
I could write a book about my X and the way a 26 yr. marriagae ended and how I got nothing and he laundried money through his mother.
It sucks big time. And I wish my kids wouldn't have anything to do with him, but they do.
It consumes me at times, like I found out he and new wife live in a big house with a swimming pool and I live in a hell hole
It is so unfair. If you need someone who understands you can email me.
Been there......and gosh the betrayal is profound
2007-04-24 14:33:18 · answer #5 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I had that happen but he didn't get money but, he got the next best thing, he had to pay child support for two kids plus he has a worse life now and babysits and cleans house and cooks, and thank god I got rid of him, because now I have a loving husband and a happier life!
2007-04-24 14:32:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What I think is that time wounds all heels. She need do nothing to get even, time will take care of that one for here. Karma is not something you want to mess with, and he has in a big way. He may think he cheated his ex, but in reality, he has cheated himself out of a family that loved him, and he will wake up one day soon very alone, stripped by the new wife of whatever she can get out of him....and she already knows his games, so trust me, time will take care of it.
2007-04-24 14:30:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Typical dishonest, lying, cheating, stealing scumbag. The sad part is he's probly proud of his ability to manipulate and scam others. Fortunately God is not stupid and this guy is going to have to give an accounting at some point.
2007-04-24 14:34:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, so, the ex-wife got suckered good and plenty. Probably been a sucker to his lines all of their married life together, which is why he knew he could pull it off.
2007-04-24 14:28:15 · answer #9 · answered by Liz 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think the guy is an ***, but legally the divorce is final and there is nothing you can do. Learn from the experience and never give him anything. He has taken enough.
2007-04-24 14:28:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋