Well theres this guy that use to go to my school, hes now 18 and graduated for a year && im 16 . . . .And he's been working at this place that i go to, & we never talked when we were in school together so it surprised me when he started talking to me at his work . . . finally he gave me his number and we were talking and he would ALWAYS wanted to hang out and he would call me hot and pretty and he told me that he didnt just wanna have sex with me, but he had a girlfriend but he said "he keeps his choices open" so i thought it was going good, we went on are first date last week to the movie && he seems really interested in me like holding my hand hugging me lil kisses and asking me what was wrong . . . and as soon as i got home he called me and said he missed me . . . .but them i invited him over on monday and he said he was to tired and he hasnt been acting to same like ill ask him when we will hang out next and hell be like "dont know". I dont know whats going on
2007-04-24 14:18:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well think about it.... he probrably does like you but he has a girlfriend... right... he probrably feels bad that he's cheating on him gf. but don't call him and wait to he calls you... and if he calls you is because he really likes you and he misses you.. well that's what i think... but think about it....
2007-04-24 14:24:19 · answer #1 · answered by ycnan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is basically like the rest of the guys in the world a dog only few are good and you have to pick and choice don't believe him when he says any thing i have been there and got really hurt dint fall for him you can find better.
2007-04-24 21:30:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"he told me he didn't just want sex with me, but he had a girlfriend.......... 'he keeps his choices open'.........".
Do you really want such a shallow person in your life? Yes, he did want sex with you, Yes, he cheated on his girlfriend with you and Yes, he has no respect for you, his girlfriend or fairly much anyone else.
Be respectfull to you and don't get caught up in this young man's world as you will only be hurt.
The fact that the 'hunt' is over for him he has moved onto another conquest is my bet.
Find another place to go to if you can, look after yourself from this male, he is not worth your time.
2007-04-24 21:28:36 · answer #3 · answered by sag_kat2chat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys can be fickle. Definitely don't go all the way with him. And is the girlfriend he had before gone for good? Might wanna check her out too.
2007-04-24 21:22:23 · answer #4 · answered by prettyblueeyes101010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically he is cheating on his girlfriend and he will hang out with you again if he thinks he can have sex with you. Thats the bottom line.
2007-04-24 21:21:58 · answer #5 · answered by gahrahstah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has another girlfriend and probably feels bad about going out with you when he really likes her. Also you shouldn't get involved because if he breaks up with his other girlfriend for you, he'll probably break up with you for another girl when you two are togeather.
2007-04-24 21:23:40 · answer #6 · answered by cyanosis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his girlfriend will find out and she will beat him up enough and dont let him get near u cuz if u r his gf then he will probably do the same thing
2007-04-24 21:25:12 · answer #7 · answered by babeliea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FOR ONE U SAID HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND. THAT RIGHT
THERE SHOULD HAVE FLAGGED U DOWN,,,,,,, OK
IT'S ALRIGHT TO TALK TO OTHER PEOPLE BUT WHAT
IF U WERE HIS CURRENT GIRLFRIEND AND HE WAS
PLAYING U THIS WAY ........... U ARE TO YOUNG TO GO
THROUGH THIS AND THERE IS MANY FISH IN THE SEA.... MOVE ON ............................... DON'T PLAY GAMES WITH UR FEELINGS...................
2007-04-24 21:26:40 · answer #8 · answered by Rosemary M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a jerk seriously forget this loser even if u did date which prob wont happen since hes ignoring you now...but even if you did who's to say he wouldn't cheat on you hes cheating on his current gf find someone better
2007-04-24 21:23:48 · answer #9 · answered by BURT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my opinion is that he is a player...he wants to keep his girlfriend, but, he also wants to 'keep his choices open'...you didn't give him what he wanted or he wouldn't have kept asking 'what is wrong'...
find someone who will appreciate you and not try to avoid you.
2007-04-24 21:24:56 · answer #10 · answered by uranus2mars 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋