like your a lesser person and your just being left behind and left out.
do you ever feel like this and how do you deal with it and just feel better?
2007-04-24 14:14:01 · 11 answers · asked by lifeoutsidethecircle 3 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
What did you say? Never mind I couldn't care less.
Seriously though, the best way to overcome that kind of baggage is not to care if people don't care and don't listen to you. Try to do things for yourself. I'm a bit of a loner so I don't know if its just my nature, but I've discovered that people will not want to be around you if YOU don't love YOURSELF first. Find something and do something where you excel at or which you enjoy. Maybe you are being left behind because you are trying to chase other people. Be yourself and love yourself, and they will start chasing you.
2007-04-24 15:05:08 · answer #1 · answered by ragdefender 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ah yes and it sucks! But the best thing to do would be to think about u and how u can make urself feel better. gain self esteem and confidence, because when you have that people wont ignore you anymore. I know its hard and im actually trying to do that right now. Maybe go shopping buy some cute new things to wear, and just so something for yourselffff. and at the end of the day if you still feel like people dont care, look to yourself because it wont always be like that. Everyone goes through a tough time in their life when they feel like it will never get better and they have no one to turn to and know one who would listen to them. I just went through one of those times, and by speaking up a little i have found some pretty amazing friends and i couldnt be happier right now! Remember it will pass and have some confidence!
Hope that helps and dont worry it will work out ; )
2007-04-24 14:23:14 · answer #2 · answered by Jen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dear left out, it sounds as though you are about as depressed as I am. I usually go to work. Whatever you do get out of the house!!! You need to meet more people. The more people you meet the better the chance of finding a friend. What ever you do HANG IN THERE!! There's alot of us out there some where.....eventually we'll all run into each other and have someone to care about who in return will care about us!
2007-04-24 14:28:38 · answer #3 · answered by stanley tyler 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I refuse to make other people's choices and actions about me.
Someone who chooses to disregard me, is demonstrating an aspect of their personality. I won't personalize that. They may come around, or maybe they won't. There are so many people on this world, that making choices about who we interact with is definitely a choice that we can make.
If someone isn't showing you dignity and respect -- try the next person.
2007-04-24 14:18:11 · answer #4 · answered by guru 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Caring and listening are two different things. One doesn't always need to happen because of the other, or visa versa. (One never happening because of the other).
In my life I've discovered that if you have something to say it isn't always a case of whatever it is being heard..... Its how its presented.
2007-04-24 14:28:50 · answer #5 · answered by Izen G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I used to get that more, and while I still get it ALOT I've learned to sort of hoist my self above that.When I get annoyed I don't show it, I try and always act confident, not cocky or self centered just confident. Try not to show weakness, or like it bothers you, unless of course it is one of your close friends doing this. Then talk to them so they can stop doing it. If they're really your friend they'll listen.
2007-04-24 14:25:17 · answer #6 · answered by Patricia B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I go through stages in which i feel like this often. Normally, i just end up keeping to myself & doing things on my end. i adjust & become rather independent. after awhile, it seems as though more people come to me & i become satisfied again.
2007-04-24 14:29:55 · answer #7 · answered by impersonal. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i do all the time. i try to ignore it but when it catchs up with me i end up falling asleep. eventually it will all catch up with me and i will regret it. thats why i deal with depression, well accually dont deal with it. my advice to you is go see a therapist, and try to make friends. i wish you good luck and hope you do well making friends. :)
2007-04-24 14:21:20 · answer #8 · answered by Bri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My happiness is not dependent upon any other person or any specific event. It is dependent only upon myself and my attitudes and perceptions.
2007-04-24 14:39:50 · answer #9 · answered by LindaLou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone somewhere feels this very way as I type..Give it to God hun, he is with you and he would never leave you.
2007-04-24 14:29:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋