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I live with a female roommate that likes to walk around nude. Wether is cleaning, working on the computer or talking on the phone she likes to do it nude. I personally am not comfortable with nudity, I was raised to keep covered except in the bedroom or bathroom(I DO NOT PUSH MY BELIEFS ON HER!!!!). I don't make a big deal about her walking around the house naked as long as she doesn't come into my room unless she is dressed. She sometimes get pissed because Ikeep my door shut and will not allow her to come into my room unless she is dressed. She keeps trying to push her au natural habits on me and it's getting on my nerves. Our lease will be expiring soon and I am seriously thinking of moving out and never getting another roommate again. Am I overreacting?

2007-04-24 14:01:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Friends

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I think she is being inconsiderate. I quite like being at least topless if not nude around my house, but if any of my friends were not comfy I would make sure I was dressed when they came over.

I think you have every right to insist that she is dressed in the common areas of your home. If she wants to be naked in her room then that's ok but she should be dresed in front of you if you are that unfomfortable. You should probably be a bit tollerant, so if for example she wants to walk from her room to the bathroom and back nude then fine.

Alternatively, invite some male friends to drop in unexpectantly from time to time. They will no doubt enjoy the perv, and you might embarrass her to put on some clothes :-)

B

2007-04-25 17:32:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

I myself am very comfortable about being nude in front of just about anyone, so I kind of understand where she's coming from. I do agree with you that your roommate shouldn't be pushing her nudity on you. If you truly are uncomfortable about her being nude you should tell her so and also tell her that if she doesn't stop that you plan to move on when the lease is up. I wouldn't stop having roommates unless you can afford it though. Next time I would how ever set up rules for the apartment. This way most problems that living with each other can be greatly reduced.

2007-04-25 09:19:41 · answer #2 · answered by ynotbeefree 2 · 0 1

Your reacting in the wrong matter. They fact is it isn't a belief, as much as its a pricipal. And the other fact is she is pushing her beliefs on you. You should of not let her get away with this, its not something thats in the contract. As a social norm it isn't right to bring nudity outside of your bedroom. It isn't just your standard, but a society standard. Its the NORM! Now why you would let her get away with pushing her pricipal on you I'll never know, but you should of stop her right there. Your guys rooms are the only territory were you have free range. Its tasteless, disrespectful, and unfair for her to even consider that the mutal living area is hers to rule, espacially in that way. That area is were the lines are drawn and comprimises made. If she gave two licks about you she would of done that, and if you gave two licks about yourself you would of made her. Learn to bring friends in on such deals and not just someone you call a roommate, or don't let them step over you. Compromise!!! That was a horriable compromise.....

2007-04-25 03:25:32 · answer #3 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0 1

that's truly for interest. i'm 15, and, no, I actually have not in any respect printed nude/revealing pictures of myself on the internet. yet as a young person female, i will form of understand why different teen females do it. they're in determined favor for interest. they favor someone to inform them "you're warm" "you've a horny ___" or "wonderful body. wonderful face" etc. they don't a lot care how trashy it truly is-- they in basic terms favor interest, and favor someone to inform them that they seem sturdy-- even no matter if it truly is a sleazy remark. Any "praise" (even if dirty, and trashy they might nicely be) is a advance to them. They sense extra effectual about themselves afterwards. (yet contained in the destiny, they received't. they're going to finally do not ignore that posting nude pictures isn't the right thanks to bypass, and they'll sense terrible about it)... they in basic terms do not imagine about the destiny impacts as they placed up it. that's only a fashion of fishing for "compliments" (in case you are able to also call it "compliments").

2016-12-04 19:49:51 · answer #4 · answered by yau 4 · 0 0

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