I don't want to be in marriage anymore,but we?

Question

have a home together and i don't want to walk out of my home with my kids and he won't leave.I'm unhappy,what shall i do.

Answer 1

have you told him this???

Answer 2

You find a way to work on your marriage. Your kids have a mom and a dad. Work on being people who can get along so that your kids know that mom and dad can find a way to be happy together.
Hey, I don't want to be fat, old, or cranky. Sometimes I look in the mirror and that is what I see. But I'm the person who has to make the make the best of what I am where I am.
If, in working on your marriage and your situation in life, you can't put your faith in God, then look at what Oprah has to say, and Dr. Phil and even Dale Carnegie. Learn the power of positive thinking instead of the power of walking away from what your family knows to be their home.
Are you going to take your kids away from their Dad and their friends and their school and their neighborhood? For what? It has something to do with what you envision would be perhaps a more exciting relationship. You don't live in a vacuum. Look at the people around you and the effect of your discontent and your plans for escape.

Answer 3

You have to explain why you are "unhappy." Marriage is a commitment and you have children so you must go to marriage counseling together or, if he refuses, alone to see the forrest - you cannot see it for the trees of your marriage. No one on Yahoo can answer your question because it is one sided and you do not provide evidence of legitimate reasons for unhappiness. Marriage fun always levels out and the real reason for marriage exists in the faces of your children. If alcohol, affairs or abuse (of you) are not present then you really don't have grounds until your youngest is 18 years old. That is the moral view.

Answer 4

Girl this topic is very sad, but i would like to tell you that first of all that i will be praying for you

girl you deserve it to yourself and your kids to get out as soon as possible. Stop all that you are doing you are suffering right now and your kids are too. If your husband dont want to move out then you have to step up and try another way to do it.
First try to talk to him and tell him you want out try to arrange everything if he dont want to accept then you get out remember you are unhappy and the more unhappy the more that you feel that you can't keep going on and it is not over your life keeps going on cause your kids are your strength
try to find a place where you can stay as soon as you move out you will see that it will make all of you feel a little bit better
and remember that you will need professional help to help you go through with your life and emotional aswell a counselor can help with your kids aswell.
I wish you all the luck in the world
when you see that you see a dark path in the way remember that you are not alone and that god is there with you he will lift you up and he will tell you is your time to shine

Answer 5

Forget the home, you don't have inner peace, these are material things, they will come and go, but your health and peace of mind, is priceless.
Health is wealth. Besides you are unhappy and that's not a good feeling, that can cause anxiety and depression, and you don't want to become insane, do you???
I know for us (women) home is our security, and that's what is scaring you, but once you go out and rent a place, furnish it, then you will realize and feel the sense of security.
Seems like you are mentally exhausted, insecure and frightened that you don't want or too scared to make a move, but trust me, once you put yourself together, you will be fine.
To be on the safe side, I would also suggest you to GET SOME LEGAL ADVISE AND COUNSELING, before you do anything.
Most of all, have faith in God. I will keep you in my prayers.

Answer 6

Well guess you have to decide what is more important the house or your happiness as well as the children's happiness. You can always make a new home for the children and hopefully find happiness. Obviously you are not happy now and therefore probably never will be. Is that the way you want to live your life and put your kids through it as well? It is up to you if he won't move out.

Answer 7

I guess you need to ask yourself what the issue with your marriage is...is it something you two can fix together? Have you tried marriage counseling? You have a life you've built together, as a family for your children - try to fix your marriage. If you are being abused you need to get out, but if you are just "unhappy" you should be able to fix it with the means available to all of us today- counseling, church, support groups, etc. I wish you the best.

Answer 8

The home is only material. You get one chance on this earth to do it right. Do you want to be in a unhappy home for the rest of your life. Do you want your children to be in an unhappy home. Is that what you want them to remember about there childhood. If he wont leave, then leave him there. Then go to court and get half. Whats the difference

Answer 9

First of all you have to FILE for divorce. In those papers you can have them state that HE is to vacate the family home and he will have to unless he wants you to call the police and have him escorted out. But YOU have to do it it's not going to get done by itself...that is IF you really don't want to be married any longer

Answer 10

You answered it your self---you got kids----your a mother--- you are a wife. God wants you to do your job here. Work it out for your kids, give it to God! He wants you and your husband and the family you made with him to live as a family under God. Do not leave your husbands bed! Do not think your feelings are what you live by. Feelings come and go, live morally, be a good mother, wife , daughter. This is your role and priority to raise your family.

Answer 11

sounds like you're going to sit around & be unhappy. do you know why you are unhappy? is it something can be changed? have you talked to your husband? maybe a therapist?


ps i'm pretty unhappy i don't have any ice cream but i'm not walking out