I found out mine did alot while I was deployed to Iraq
2007-04-24 12:52:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You mean Exwife ...right?
2007-04-24 13:01:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
More to the point...how do you feel about it? What were her reasons for doing it? I guess you have discussed this with her, and depending on her reasons.....what was your response? Were her reasons acceptable to you? Does she love you? Those are all relevant questions, not the one you have asked on here. Depending on all of those things, then what are you going to do about it? Do you want the marriage to survive? If so, and if what she did was totally unacceptable to you then you both need to go into counselling. I know a lot of people suggest counselling, but trully, it does work....its very helpful having a third party who is not involved emotionally to help you work this out. Dont just push it to the back of your mind because the thought will always haunt you. Deal with it, make your wife be responsible for her behaviour and ask her does she want the marriage to survive too? If she does, then the answer is clear, you both need to enter into counselling because pretending it didnt happen will never work and your thoughts and distrust will get worse....deal with it now because if you leave it too long, it will eventually destroy your marriage.
2007-04-24 20:02:23 · answer #2 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would consider that inappropriate....now if she was sending it to you...that would be just fine :) I guess I would ask what the point was, where she was going with it, and where were you in her mind. With the sexual predators out there, that is just crazy - and then the fact she has a husband in Iraq, that is just low class.
2007-04-24 21:08:18 · answer #3 · answered by Carey L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm.....sounds fishy to me! What was her goal, other than to entice other guys? Sounds like trouble to me. Talk to her and try to get an idea of what she was after and take it from there.
2007-04-24 19:57:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not right at all, I hope that things work out for you
2007-04-24 20:00:39 · answer #5 · answered by mydds07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow dude she really misses you... people who act out like this have a reason. you need to find out the reason. good luck.
2007-04-24 20:07:19 · answer #6 · answered by 4stringthndr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
caught my EX HUSBAND zillioins of times
2007-04-24 21:38:37 · answer #7 · answered by lady26 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is awful and dont put up with it, it may never stop now.
2007-04-28 19:00:40 · answer #8 · answered by Namoosa~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm, so i guess you should see if the JAG corp will handle your divorce
2007-04-24 20:43:16 · answer #9 · answered by Michael 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow
2007-04-24 19:56:52 · answer #10 · answered by joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋