HOW DO I GET IN A FIGHT WITH A GIRL AT SCHOOL W/O HITTING HER FIRST. WHAT ARE SOME RUDE THINGS I COULD SAY ABOUT HER?( NOT ANYTHING THAT HAS CUSSWORDS OR THREATING IN IT) pLZ WILL SOMEONE HELP MECUZ I REALLY WANNA GET IN A FIGHT WITH HER!! ( AND YES I AM A GIRL)
2007-04-24 12:32:30 · 11 answers · asked by LeeLees 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Maybe you should just exhale. Hitting someone is not always the best way to go. I am more of a kill them with kindness kind of girl. Try it. People don't know how to respond. The amount of animosity you seem to have towards this person is far more negative for you than it is for her. All the energy you are putting into messing her up, you should try to re-divert to help yourself or better yet, someone else. Good luck. Hope you don't get an answer that leads to a fight, that may not go just as you apparently think it will.
2007-04-24 12:40:40 · answer #1 · answered by Rosebudd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Matter what this girl has done to tick you off to the point where you just want to belt her one...using violence isn't the answer. It won't make you feel any better smashing her face in (sure it will at the time so you can get your frustrations out...so why not just pound a pillow, or go for a bike ride., do something other than letting this anger build up). If you choose to "fight" her...you're only asking for more trouble. Depending on how the fight goes..you could become charged with assault...even if she hits you first... You definately don't need the 'cops' on your doorstep. Be a bigger person and walk away. GOODLUCK i hope you listen*
2007-04-24 12:40:41 · answer #2 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was gonna pass up your question as I do not believe in fighting, however, in response I would like to offer this:
1. In a fight everyone gets hurt and there is not winner.
2. If you lower yourself to her level to accomplish anything, then you will be known in going forward for what you do. Your image in the eyes of the other students may change drastically.
3. You risk changing your friend base losing the respect of your teachers and those who look up to you.
4. Any credibility of matureness and decisive thinking that you have shown people up to now will be washed away and you will be back at square one proving yourself to everyone else.
5. Both of you are going to suffer consequences for fighting regardless of who threw the first punch.
With that said, and you are willing to forgo all of these attributes, then why would you wait for her to throw the first punch. The first one hit usually loses and I cannot understand anyone wanting to fight to lose. If it is worth fighting for it is worth throwing the first punch and the second and so forth. My advice is get over what is bothering you about her and realize it is not important enough to sacrifice your accomplishments up to now and don't fight. I sincerely hope that I have gotten you at least to think about your actions and not just your anger. Anger is a very negative emotion that will consume you. Let it go. it is not as important as it seems.
2007-04-24 13:54:58 · answer #3 · answered by g_menagerie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to get into a fight with this girl?
You have to do something to make her mad so she'll want to hit you. Just saying something rude might not be enough.
Sorry, I really don't know. If you want to fight her why not take the first swing? Just b/c you think you'll get in more trouble that way?
2007-04-24 12:36:54 · answer #4 · answered by charlie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well fighting ,dont sovel any thing, but only get you sore hand, an a body to go with it,,, you start out with one small fight, then in time buil a name for fighting, ,, realy you do not want this name,,, it take a bigger person to walk a way ,than to fight, , now at school, no matture who pass the first blow, both in trouble, also how you know you going to win,?, dont let look fool you, some may look weak, but , well you learn
2007-04-24 12:38:18 · answer #5 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I work with a girl that irrates the hell out of me. Pretty serious things have happened and I have to see her everyday. But I am a better person to walk away from her than to get in fights because in my books I would be just as low as her and that would make me just like her. Do you want to be like her? Then let it go.
2007-04-24 12:37:24 · answer #6 · answered by jeannie f 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up. Why be a bully? Ur gonna grow up, she's gonna grow up soon. Do u really want to have someone hate u for years to come? The best way is to not fight. Be a bigger person and let it go. Bullies are cowards. Don't be a coward! Ur better than that! =)
2007-04-24 12:41:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get into a fight with her is the only RIGHT way to go.
Apparently you want to get into a fight with her, but want to be able to blame it on her by saying that you were just defending yourself. If you don't have the guts to take the punishment for the fight, then don't try to have the fight is my opinion.
2007-04-24 12:36:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
shes not worth u getting in trouble even if she hits u ur both in trouble and the police might be called in then ur in real trouble now is it worth it
2007-04-24 12:37:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just grow up, and move on. Ignor her, don't talk to her, etc. If she follows you, just tell her to grow up. Then, if she tries to start something, just tell her quit bothering you, and move on. If she persists, then tell her to either start something, or to cary her wimp **** home to mommy. Then if she does hit you, then defend yourself, knowing you've done everything reasonable to avoid it.
2007-04-24 12:36:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋