If you could change being gay, would you?
I'm not gay by the way I'm just wondering.
2007-04-24 12:11:23 · 20 answers · asked by Æ 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Any one who has a trait that becomes a burden on him socially and which has no respectable social space would start hating that trait and want to change it, unless he or she is very strong..
Of course there is this another category of people who don't want to change it but because they are so weak that they don't need dignity and are quite o.k. being denigrated in society and accepting a lowly status.
Gay signifies giving a denigrated and lowly status on the fringes to man's sexual need for men. It is a dustbin for all the negative and mutilated same-sex desires that are left after their intense persecution in the mainstream.
Gay is actually built on the traditional third gender space which has been there only for transgendered males who desire promiscuous and exclusive receptive anal/ oral sex with men. It is wrong to force men who are neither trans nor into receptive anal/ orla out of the mainstream men's space (straight) into the 'gay' identity through a faulty 'sexual orienattion' mechanism.
It is O.K. if trans males or those heavily into receptive sex take on the gay identity.
But for any self-respecting man who is not part of the above who takes on the denigrated 'gay' identity ----- is a coward, and not fit to be a man.
A lower coward is the rest of us who suppress or hide our same-sex needs and portray us to be exclusively heterosexuals giving the forces of heterosexualisation a chance to falsely project exclusive heterosexuality as a majority trait.
The only real man is someone who fights for the right to love men without losing the 'staright' status. That is someone who fights the forces of heterosexualisation and seeks to give love between men its rightful place, right in the mainstream majority as a 'straight' trait.
2007-04-26 20:26:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
WOW! What a great question.... I used to wish that when I was in high school dealing with that and dealing with my "gay Thoughts". Right now, YES. Even in this day and age, it's not about living an easier lifestyle because I don't have to live my life for anyone except myself, however, I always wanted to be married and have kids and am attracted to both sexes but more to men. I can't change it but if I could, I would for many obvious reasons. I guess that's why I could never understand the gay "PRIDE" thing. why would you be proud of it or even have to share your personal sex life with the world? It's between you and the other person no matter what you are. I would love to want to be with a woman as much as I do a man, but I am also happy with who I am and have gone beyond that "society" right/ wrong thing.... I just can't understand child molesters and rapists... that's not sexually natural I believe, it's a mental disorder associated with sexual confusion.
2007-04-27 23:43:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love being gay.
Sorry, love. Thats just the way it its. No matter how many times you guys ask the question. No matter how many ways you reword the question. The answer is always going to be the same:
I love being gay!! Its who I am! Its what I do! Its the way I live and breathe and love. Its me.
2007-04-24 12:27:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The question is silly because changing being gay is for most of us impossible.
However, being gay is one of the factors that define me. I wouldn't give it up for a million dollars. It would be like giving up half of my face.
2007-04-24 13:03:57 · answer #4 · answered by NHBaritone 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely NOT!
I went through too many years of self-loathing and living a LIE to ever go back now!
I'm finally happy, have a great relationship, a happy and honest son, a wonderfully supportive and loving family....NO WAY!
2007-04-24 12:18:32 · answer #5 · answered by DEATH 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This has been asked 1000 times here, and the answers are always the same...why would I want to mess up perfection? Do you mean turn straight? omg! From what I have seen from that group, not no, but hell no! Talk about one bunch of screwed up people...no thanks.
2007-04-24 12:15:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
no....i am happy being gay first off women ***** and complain to much and are overly dramatic...my boyfriend and i we get along great it's like were best buds but lovers..we watch football on tv and get drunk together...play sports, go camping( what wife does that) i dont even waste money on clothes i just borrow his..and plus i hate kids i never wanted one even if i was straight..
2007-04-24 12:17:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Lindsay Lohan is a firecrotch.
2007-04-24 12:20:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way
i like being gay and love it to the max
it defines my character
2007-04-24 13:39:12 · answer #9 · answered by Raver Xeno 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At first yeah, but when I wake to see the beutiful women, I just thank God me made me this way...A Lesbian....
2007-04-24 12:16:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋