Ive been very depressed recently. mainly because my parents..it just seems like they dont like me being around or anything that relates to me. So it maks me feel unwanted. It makes me think that when they say i love you they dont mean it, And at school mostly all the kids dont like me, And im not all that smart, And i think im ugly and apperently most girls do to because ive never had a girl ask me out. Im 13 and a boy..does anyone have suggestions on how to stop the depression?
2007-04-24 12:08:42 · 5 answers · asked by wildman_2121 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
To be honest..im a little scared to talk to somone about it.
2007-04-24 12:35:52 · update #1
The best thing to do is to speak to your doctor about getting some counselling as you're quite depressed with just about everything that's going on in your life. It sounds like every where you turn, you're feeling like you're being pushed away.
This is quite difficult if you're feeling this low..Definately speak to your doctor* and hang in there*
Get some books at the local library on self esteem and try to start building y ourself up instead of knocking yourself down. You are only 13yrs old...and I know times feel like they're never going to get better..but they will* You just need a lil help along the way so Please go see your doctor and talk to them about how you're feeling*~ GoodLuck and Best Wishes* Keep on Smilin*
2007-04-24 12:31:41 · answer #1 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 13. and im a girl. and i feel the same way sometimes. but i know deep down my parents love me. you have to find out who you are and be comfortable with it. dont let other people bring you down.be confident in who you are. the one reason im so happy is cause I'm happy and comfortable with who I am. and people love me for it, even if im not the prettiest girl. if you do that in the long run people will love you too.
2007-04-24 19:18:17 · answer #2 · answered by suferchica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe its a phase, everyone goes through this at some point in their life. Depression is bad - depression actually stops people from doing their everyday business, i think your just going through a rougn patch - adolesence phase.
Cheer up, things can only get better!
2007-04-24 19:13:27 · answer #3 · answered by Louise S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey. All of this has to do with how you feel about yourself. It's difficult to think highly of yourself when you feel that everybody else's thoughts about you are negative. In order to deal with this depression, you need to erase all the assumptions you make about how other people think about you and focus on who YOu know you are. Please send me an e-mail or chat with me over an instant messenger so we can work on what's going on here. My e-mail address is eckm0032@umn.edu.
Heath
2007-04-24 19:15:38 · answer #4 · answered by heath e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st off i msorry bout ur parents they should bhe supporting u not hurting u...but ur just 13 i didnt date until sometime late in high school..............I didnt even had a tru real bf until i was well 18 my age now.....but its worth the wait trust me enjoy ur life
2007-04-24 19:13:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋