I am in high school and I really want to make friends and be happy, but there are always people who are so mean. I know I should ignore them and continue with my own life but there are times when they would do mean things such as shove me, tease me, and ignore me. I know how people say eventually those kinds of people will become janitors or fast food workers, but the people I'm talking about are smart and really popular. Sometimes I feel jealous that they're so happy in high school but will still probably live a really good life later on. I try to ignore them and live my own life but I can't when they're so mean. Is it wrong for me to feel so depressed and jealous?
2007-04-24 11:58:14 · 6 answers · asked by fun4.3v3r 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Listen to me. Everyone gets teased. Everyone. Even the popular kids have at some point. I was teased mercilessly. Did it suck? Yes. Would I change a moment of it? Absolutely not. Strife, struggle and hardship is what the human animal was built to withstand. Without struggle you don't develop character, insight, empathy or wisdom. In otherwords...your parents are right. Things that suck eggs build character.
2007-04-24 12:11:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray for them. Let the Lord handle them.
"A sound heart is the life of the flesh: but envy the rottenness of the bones." Proverbs 14:30
"And He said unto them, Take heed, and beware of covetousness: for a man's life consists not in the abundance of the things which he possesses." Luke 12:15
Envy, jealousy, and covetousness take your eyes off of God and fix them upon a person, a place or a thing.
Remember what I told you. Pray and let the Lord handle the meanies of the world and you keep thinking good thoughts.
Jealousy and depression are sins. Don't give into these mean people who entice you to sin. Ignore them and pray for them. If you associate with them, their meanest will rub off on you. You certainly do not want to be like them.
2007-04-24 12:10:56 · answer #2 · answered by Jeancommunicates 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 22:51:03 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know jealousy is POISON...talk to a counselor or read a book on Jealousy...But for instance....maybe some girl may have nicer clothes than you...But you have a cuter smile than her...there are always going to be lesser and greater people than you...Everytime jealousy comes into your mind....REPLACE THE THOUGHT WITH SOMETHING GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF...OR ABOUT A FRIEND....the better thought will over ride the jealous thought...i hope this helps...thanks for asking...jealousy never got anyone anywhere...those people at school that are mean...SOMEDAY THEY WILL REALIZE.....hopefully,.BUT IF THEY DO NOT THEY WILL BE WORKING FAST FOOD ..OR SOMEOTHER LOW INCOME JOBS....TRY TO REMEMBER THAT...you are a step ahead you already know...
2007-04-24 12:07:22 · answer #4 · answered by sweet 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No IT IS NOT WRONG FOR YOU TO BE JEALOUS YOU JUST NEED TO LEARN HOW TO CONTROL IT. YOU ARE GOING TO FIND A LOT OF PEOPLE LIKE THAT IN LIFE, AND THAT'S A SHAME, BUT ITS LIFE.
2007-04-24 12:07:15 · answer #5 · answered by larry B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. your all grown up.
2007-04-24 12:00:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋