This happened last summer... what should i do?
2007-04-24 11:56:08 · 23 answers · asked by Mikey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if you two were still together than i think you should seriously rethink this relationship. if she truly cared for you she would not have done that. doesnt matter if she was on vacation, drinking, etc. she should have respected you as a person and not given in to temptation. she did it once, she'll do it again.
2007-04-24 11:59:50 · answer #1 · answered by jensmith24040 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you know that if she had found out that you did something, she would break up with you and freak out. Not just that, but this coming from a female: if she was easy enough to sleep with a bartender(ews) that she didn't even know (ews) while she had a man, and then waited a year(!) to tell you *that is, if it was even her that told you*, then I wonder what else you will find out about later on. She sounds pretty easy to me, and not worth your time, money or heartache. And everyone knows that a taken woman with any sense or decency wouldn't go into a bar anyways without her man. If the tables were turned, you would be in hot water, so I think it's time for her to be some, too.
2007-04-24 12:04:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you mean EX girlfriend? Think you will ever trust her fully again? Hop into bed for a quickie while your not around. No matter how much she apologies you will always have this in the back of your mind and will have a sour relationship.
2007-04-24 12:07:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude why are you getting emotional ? Do you think you would keep that woman all your life or such a SL** is worth of seeing you as your dream partner. I would say just use her and have sex and then drop her off to the next block without showing your resentment.
Hope this helps.
2007-04-24 12:12:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, i completely agree. i spotted that too yet in no way theory to invite. it style of sounds like as summer season ends they get this sexier look like they choose some thing for an prolonged time. if your ultimate then this female ought to be coming around quickly to me. i'd get fortunate yay. lol hahaha
2016-11-27 02:14:08 · answer #5 · answered by fredline 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump her and move on, if she doesn't have any respect for you and the relationship then she is not the person you need to be with, if she cheated once then she will most likely do it again, get yourself tested for stds because she has put at at risk of catching something just because she wanted to step outside of the relationship....
2007-04-27 10:27:04 · answer #6 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man really that's up to you. You could easily dump her if its something that's going to keep chipping away at you. But if you truly care about her you should let it go. People make mistakes and if she's really sorry I would let it go. If I was you I would get tested though.
2007-04-24 12:00:44 · answer #7 · answered by Allen O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a beauty and do what I call a grunge F***.. It will make you feel better. Kinda curious who told ya and if your gf feels guilty or not. That should be the deciding factor.
2007-04-24 12:00:43 · answer #8 · answered by Bud W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you guys exclusive at the time? Can you get past it? Has there been any other random encounters?
It's been almost a year. But it's your decision.
2007-04-24 12:00:11 · answer #9 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough call...it's hard to trust someone once they have betrayed you.
Are you forgiving and forgetful enough to be capable of never letting this be an issue in the future??
If not, you should end it now.
I'm sorry!
2007-04-24 12:00:14 · answer #10 · answered by Buff 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋