Men - are you leading lives of quiet desperation?

Question

if you are what is the cause of this - is it women? other men? society?

or does it mainly boil down to the lack of sexual excitment in your lives?

I'm interested in hearing from you

Answer 1

I was. I finally decided a "nice" girl was the best way to go. And it turned out her pent up quiet desperation made her into a wild-woman.

This had nothing to do with other men. I figure even the really cool guys are just as frustrated (I bet Brad Pitt is going through it).

As for "sexual excitement", well read the first paragraph. I think man's (men's?) biggest problem is we have some crazy unrealistic ideal about some unattainable goal (in women) but if we would just look around we we find a lot of cool, fun, hot women.

Answer 2

Most of the traditional male roles have been slowly taken away from men. IE head of household, family protector, etc. A lot of pride has been taken away from men. Including their right to 50% of a child... Last i checked it was solely a womens choice to abort or have children.

This with women becoming more like men IE i rarely see girls looking like girls well kill my sex drive. Where is there a girl in a nice dress... oh no she's wearing the same pants i am..
And yet most women still expect a man to pay for drinks and dinner???

No sex drive = more porn, no pride = less of a man.. .

Answer 3

Nope – I have to go with the pretty satisfied program. My wife is all that and we are best friends, go everywhere together and can just sit and watch the sun going down and have a great evening. As for the life excitement – I’ve been there and done that and have the disability to prove it.

"The trouble with our liberal friends is not that they're ignorant: It's just that they know so much that isn't so."
- Ronald Reagan

Answer 4

Nope my wife and I have it quiet good together.
Actually it is women who are confused in their roll in life. They traded their relationships with men for Independence.
The more man like they become the less desirable they are to men.

Answer 5

That one would allow himself to lead such a life for any reason identifies him as less than a man.

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Answer 6

Not at all, one of the best creations in this century was the video games. And for the company in the lone night, we have the Internet. We doing good, but thanks for ask!