What am I to do, she wants to go out on her own and take my kids away from me again, 2nd time in 6 months. She is on zyprexa, I need help!!!!!!!!!
2007-04-24 11:24:43 · 7 answers · asked by larry c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Her father and his family have bipolar and her mother is a alcoholic, family has a lot of dependecy probelms. I have not did aything wrong, kids are aged 4 and 3.Live on Ohio
2007-04-26 06:25:49 · update #1
Bi-polar can be controlled by meds. What is the reason she is taking the kids away....twice? Are there genuine reasons why she wants to leave you? Is she happy being married to you? There are two sides to every story. A person who has bi-polar is not crazy, they behave erratically sometimes, but with meds it CAN be controlled. If there is no reason why she is taking the children....if she is behaving erratically and for no reason except on a whim, then its time you tried to get custody of your children because they will end up really confused kids, maybe even bi-polar themselves. There is a lot of controversy on this issue, but it is very common for a child to become bi-polar if either parent is. Some will say its hereridary, some say its conditioning. If it is conditioning, then having their mother as sole care-giver puts your children in a very high risk category of suffering bi-polar themselves.
Put this into perspective. Is she a fit mother? Is her bi-polar disorder affecting the way she is caring for your children? Or is it a case that she is unhappy in the marriage....have you cheated with other women for example? If that is the case, then any woman, bo-polar or not would not want to stay in the marriage. If it is her bi-polar condition that is making her behave this way, then you have to protect your kids first. You have to go and see a lawyer and stop her from taking your kids. You have to prove that she is an unfit mother. Your kids must come first in this instance.
Work out what the real problem is, then decide if she is justified in taking the kids away.
Take care
2007-04-24 11:43:24 · answer #1 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as she's taking her medicine and she isn't a danger to the kids...she could still gain full custody. If she's just up and leaving and not filing for official divorce, than you'd better get the legal system on your side right now.
2007-04-24 11:30:12 · answer #2 · answered by Virgo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BiPolar is a be conscious used to label a sequence of indicators. this is not a hundred% precise or maybe 60% precise. a brilliant array of issues can certainly set off indicators that look interior the BiPolar class. Emotional misery is yet one, and yet another is commencing up to emerge with alarming repetitiveness. Uncultivated intelligence. needless to say you like this guy. it particularly is not an argument. Your experience provides you adequate potential to undergo the misery and torment he exudes and it isnt truthful. interior the long-term each physique suffers. i exchange into clinically determined BiPolar for 10yrs until eventually an IQ try confirmed my IQ to be one hundred sixty five with a single component that helps me to get it ideal a hundred% in a definite section. medicine exchange into like putting out hearth with gasolene. Leaving him is a lot diverse to living aside or holiday, this is going to basically develop up his concern. yet shifting out with set boundries and sparkling aims whilst permitting him hazard to handle his issues certainly provides him a door to a miles better existence. The unfavorable guy has reached an extremely lonely time in his existence the place maximum folk abandon their relationships and that i dont think of he merits this. it is hassle-free for others to choose and propose, yet they do no longer love that guy and that they might understand what they understand from textual content fabric books, yet who the heck are they to declare what is going on interior the pinnacle of a tortured techniques.
2016-10-13 09:50:02 · answer #3 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a lawyer! That's where you should begin, but don't stop there. Next you need to speak directly with her doctor or therapist, and advise them as to what is going on. You have to put up a fight, but again, be careful what you ask for, you may get it. But, for the sake of the children, you have to do what is right and what will be for their benefit, and keep them safe.
2007-04-24 11:28:45 · answer #4 · answered by John B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to contact a family law attorney right way. Divorce her now and get custody. She is a danger to your children, and a good father would protect them from her.
Don't listen to that fool, even on meds she is a danger. Bipolar people don't get better, and even on meds can have bad episodes.
2007-04-24 11:31:55 · answer #5 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get a lawyer!! U can map out the custody agreement. U have rights too!
2007-04-24 11:37:17 · answer #6 · answered by roastbeefonrye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way--if one thing happens they show up-- take your kids and then you have to go to court-& explain why you let the kids go with her. Work it out, your wife needs you, she isn't well. Go with her or keep her there but she needs you very much, your whole family needs you.
2007-04-24 11:31:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋