my husband has been rood about me beening preg. he says that it would be easy to carry that extra wight and he said that breastfeeding woud be easy how could i punished him
2007-04-24 10:49:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
First, tell him how you feel when he talks that way.
Make him do everything with you, including waking up in the middle of the night....make him sit with you when you breastfeed. That is the only way he will know.
Get him one of those pregnant mom harnesses that weigh as much as a pregnancy, and it goes over him like a full body apron. I don't know where you can get them, but it is the only way a man can even get a clue what it is like.
Kick him in the groin...that feels like late pregnancy.
2007-04-24 10:55:08 · answer #1 · answered by gg 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me that your pretty young.. Punishing him would only make things worse. Trust me. I know. Just ignore him, he doesn't understand what it's like to be pregnant. None of it is easy...From the first trimester through birth, and breastfeeding. It's all a challenge. Every time he is rude, just carry on as if nothing happened. Maybe he's just a little jealous because of all the attention shifting toward you and your belly and away from him. He'll understand someday.
2007-04-24 18:01:12 · answer #2 · answered by :)Smile(: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was pregnant with my first child I took classes called "prepared childbirth". In these classes at one point the men were given prenancy suits that were heavy and pushed on the bladder. See if you can find a class near you...insurance usually pays for it or whatever assistance you may have if not insurance.
Also, if he is not supportive now how will he be when the baby comes. Take care of yourself because if you don't no one else will. Good Luck.
2007-04-24 17:55:20 · answer #3 · answered by Betty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Check out this girl's question history. Her questions sound completely phony. In one question, she is 2 weeks pregnant, a few hours later she is 10 weeks, in another question, the baby was already born.
Sorry if I am ranting, but I hate hearing these silly questions posted by immature people.
2007-04-24 19:31:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
1. Get one of those pregnancy suits and make him wear it for a whole weekend and sleep with it on.
2. When the baby is born, make him get up with you at night and pinch his nipples really hard the whole time you are breast feeding.
LOL...sorry, the 2nd one was just too funny
2007-04-24 17:55:55 · answer #5 · answered by ntemp01 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
HA HA, well there really is NO punishment because you are going to end up feeling guilty. Talk to him on his verbal comments and how they make you feel rather then try to get even.
remember what comes around goes around!
2007-04-24 17:54:19 · answer #6 · answered by ChelYox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont have sex with him. Tell him he got you that way and hes gonna suffer until the baby is born since you cant actually make him see what its like to be pregnant.
2007-04-24 18:56:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest, since your pregnant and can get away with it,
cut off his prized horse's head and leave it in your marriage bed at his feet. For a good example watch godfather part one.
2007-04-24 17:57:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cold shoulder is always a good tactic. Lol. He is a man, and doesnt have a clue. Tell him that.
2007-04-24 17:55:03 · answer #9 · answered by mandiliz06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you may not breastfeed - and he can do the night feeds - every night - and every morning he can tell you how easy it was.........lol That should shut him up !
2007-04-24 17:53:37 · answer #10 · answered by yahoobloo 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋