2007-04-24 10:39:59 · 17 answers · asked by purplediamondz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you want to. It isn't required, but it is easier than hiding your past.
2007-04-24 10:47:15 · answer #1 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her, at least its in the open then and that way nothing can come back on you in the future, because somehow, she will find out, these things have a way of showing up down the track, it's not worth prolonging it. I don't see how she could get jealous, after all what you did seems like normal young peoples fun which you were entitled to have before the pair of you met, there is nothing she can do about your past, what matters now is you two together. Most people have had previous relationships or one night stands before they get married, this is part of life, not something to be jealous over. Good luck.
2016-05-17 23:07:58 · answer #2 · answered by christin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really, but if the spouse wants to know I would keep it light.....and make the spouse feel how important they are that you choose them out of all the other people in the world. If any where sexual tell the spouse it was just terrible and that nobody was ever as good as them. just be carefull you don't say anything to make them feel some one was better them. If anything build your spouse up not down. Infact don't stay on the subject so long and talk about what you have with them in the here and now.
2007-04-24 10:52:50 · answer #3 · answered by Lindsey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way play it safe what is in the passed stays there my husband did not want to know my passed and you know it worked out good but noone likes the x so leave it there you will thank me believe me all you are doen is opening a big can of worms for both of you so leave it alone just focus on the here and now and gl
2007-04-24 10:47:22 · answer #4 · answered by jewels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. What happened in the past needs to be left in the past.
2007-04-24 11:14:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in a relationship then you need to honest about your past and possible reconnections with these people..It is only fair
2007-04-24 11:02:36 · answer #6 · answered by swindlebobby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What in Christ's name will that accomplish? Think about it long and hard.
Ever hear the old saying "Let sleeping dogs lie"? Know what that means? It means it good advice.
2007-04-24 10:42:49 · answer #7 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how comfortable the two of you are with such things....but you have no obligation to tell them about naything that happened befor you met
2007-04-24 10:47:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before marriage? Not necessary. Since they were married - expect a harsh reaction to your confession(s).
2007-04-24 10:45:18 · answer #9 · answered by Stefka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my husbands asks I tell him... If he doesn't I figure he doesn't want to know...
We did tell each other numbers of people we had been sexually active with before each other before we married.. We answered all of each other questions.. And it hasn't come up since..
2007-04-24 10:53:04 · answer #10 · answered by Diane (PFLAG) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋