My boyfriend hates big breasts, and I am 36D, pushing DD. They are proportionally big, since I'm only a dress size 5/6, but they're not freakish or anything.
I think the real reason he hates them is because his ex was really flat, and I feel like he wants a clone of her. He criticizes my boobs a lot and he says he'll pay for it.
Do you think I should consider it if it will make him that happy? I'm sick of being criticized and I hate how he's turned off by my body.
2007-04-24 08:58:24 · 10 answers · asked by GoldenGirl 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
wow I didn't realize what a jerk he is until I read everyone's answers..
2007-04-25 08:30:04 · update #1
NOOOOO!!!!! If he really cares about you, he wouldn't even ask you to do a thing like that!!!!! If he's really that critical of you, you need to move on to someone else to will care about you and love you the way you are. Think about this....if you do it to please him, what are you going to do the next time he wants you to do something to perfect yourself to "his" idea of perfection. He is only thinking about himself here not you. If he can't get past your breast size, then he needs to go find a 12 year old who doesn't have breasts yet. (I don't mean that literally of course). You need to be happy with yourself and not let someone who is supposed to love you unconditionally make you feel bad about yourself.
2007-04-24 09:47:57 · answer #1 · answered by First Lady 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ditch the guy, not the breasts!
Consider a reduction only if you feel one would be a medical improvement (lessen back pain, etc.), or if you are personally disatisfied with your breasts (which, from your question, doesn't appear to be the case).
Do you realize how many guys there are out there who would love to be with a large-breasted lady?
But anyways, my point is, that you shouldn't stay with a guy who can't love you for the way you are, anyway.
2007-04-24 10:25:41 · answer #2 · answered by JenV 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2007-04-24 19:11:18 · answer #3 · answered by Alicia 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Dump that jerk! You're body is beautiful! If he doesn't love it, then that's his problem. You deserve someone who loves all of you, and doesn't make you feel badly about yourself or pressure you into doing something you don't want to do.
Lots of love xx
2007-04-24 12:38:22 · answer #4 · answered by jessiebrenn 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This guy doesn't like you for you! and thats what really counts. You really need to tell him that you can't change unless you're gonna be happy with it and that if he doesn't like you for you then i would ditch him. He's not seeing what really matters about you and it doesn't seem that he really cares about you. Do what your heart tells you and not what someone else tells you!
2007-04-24 11:16:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its your body hun! You should be proud of it!! Plus, if he wants an exact copy of his ex, what are you doing with him anyway? He should love you the way you are, and not try to transform you into an ex. Good luck
2007-04-24 09:40:00 · answer #6 · answered by greeneyedgurl1234444 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
hell no you are you and not his ex. if you want it then you get it, dont take his money, he could use against you later. and if he is truned off by your body then find another man who isn't. and loves you for being you. not what size your boobs are.....! If your sick of him then get a new guy, there are plenty of them and only one you!
2007-04-24 09:56:52 · answer #7 · answered by kat 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need a new boyfriend. The guy you're with is a loser and doesn't really love you. You're crazy if you consider surgery for that loser.
2007-04-25 04:12:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should NEVER have plastic surgery because someone ELSE wants you to.
If he cannot stand your breasts then he needs to deal with it or go bye bye.
I would dump him.
2007-04-24 12:25:28 · answer #9 · answered by Terri 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless your not happy don't do it for a man. Its more painful getting them reduced than enlarged.
Me I would dump the guy. Thats me thou.
2007-04-24 09:54:36 · answer #10 · answered by wigglemommyof3 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋