How do I tell him??

Question

There is a guy at work that I think is just, "gods gift to man.....(tall, dark skinned, w/an unbelievable body)(oh and very sexy hair) How can I approach this guy to let him know how I feel not knowing if hes into other men and should I do it knowing my work frowns on same sex relations and could possibly lose my job? Any Ideas would help.....

Answer 1

invite him to play a sport like basketball or tennis. after a play pat him on the A$$ just like a normal person would but kinda grab it every third or forth time. if he never objects to it, then ask him out for drinks and see how it goes from there.

Answer 2

Well....pretend you think you saw him at the restaurant or something and just say "Was that you last night at so and so restaurant" with your girlfriend....or just ask him casually where his girlfriend works...or ask him if he lives alone or with his girlfriend, then you will know if he has a girlfriend or is single...don't know how you could ask him if he is gay or not...he might be upfront and just tell you when you ask about his girlfriend, also being in a relationship with someone you work with isn't such a good idea. If your work frowns on same sex relationships why are you working there if you are gay?....good luck to you :)

Answer 3

Do not take a dump where you eat, do not play around where you work. These are all very old adages, and they still, and will be true. You can look, but you cannot touch. You can cruise, but you cannot return the cruise. Leave well enough alone...go elsewhere to find partners, you can only loose in this situation, therefore do not play the game. Anyone who says, tell him you are gay, or ask him if he is gay... is very bad advice. Keep your mouth shut and get back to work...this is off limits if you want to keep your job. Good luck

Answer 4

oh your soo silly. dont be afraid to let your true emotions shine through your extremely hard and engorged outer surface. Tell him what you feel, and be prepared to be accepted with open arms. Im sure the spark of your life feels the same, help to steer him in the right direction. And with work frowning on the situation, just let your boss know that you are roommates and that nothing out of the ordinary is going on. heck maybe he will even join your twosome. you never know.

good luck honey..

Answer 5

I would suggest a meeting that is away from work, so that you can approach this situation slowly and cautiously.. Of course, there's always the chance that he already knows, but, don't take anything for granted.. also, maybe you should get his messenger nickname, or something like that, so you can, away from work, explore the situation in IM's..

Good luck

Answer 6

Well ask him to have a couple of beers or something after work and just ask him how he feels about gays and if hes into it then ask him out and if not just try to move on and fined your true love. And that way you dont lose your job.

Answer 7

You have to decide which is more important in this case:

Keeping your job or finding out if the guy is gay and possibly forging a relationship (and possiblly losing your job).

BTW - office relationships are very iffy at best.

Answer 8

If I where you I wouldn't try it, if he is and you get together then brake up it would make to be a hard day at work, that is if you didn't get fired. Try finding a local gay bar or use the net, but most definitely not at work.

Answer 9

I wouldn't pick your workplace as your dating social hour. Go outside of work and find someone! Unless you don't think this job is worth keeping because you are going to feel mighty awkward when he turns you down and then tell his work buddies that you are the phaggot that hit on him.

Answer 10

I suggest you begin in a friendship seeking kind of way - see if he wants to go out for drinks after work. Get to know him before trying to hook up. It's actually easier since you're gay and can successfully use the "friends" ploy to gather info before making an *** out of yourself.