You are in mourning. You will always remember him but, with time, the pain will subside. I had 2 miscarriages myself and know what you are feeling. There is nothing wrong with you. It might help if you talk to your clergy person or a licensed therapist. God bless you and the best of luck to you.
2007-04-24 06:49:22
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answered by Anonymous
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You grieve the lack of your little one. Someday you'll be able to be ready to have kids, however that does not imply this one will imply any much less to you. Women who're pregnant are moms, despite the fact that they lose their little one. Your age doesn't suggest that you simply must suppose any much less unhappy over what occurred. I've been via 3 miscarriages and now I have a lovely little woman. Sometimes I nonetheless grieve for my infants, however it is gotten bigger with time. I'd recommend creating a memorial for the little one. Give him/her a reputation. Maybe get a bracelet or necklace with their start stone it it. Write a letter for your little one and inform them how a lot you're keen on them and leave out them. It will harm doing all this first of all, however with time it offers a form for your grief and permits you to heal. The worst factor you'll be able to do to your self is attempt to "simply recover from it" whilst you are now not in a position.
2016-09-05 22:33:41
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answered by wortham 4
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I am so sorry for your loss. I too had a miscarriage in August when I was 19 and it devastated me. I cried over ultrasound pictures and the pink lil booties I bought for my lil girl, so I know what its like to lose something you've grown to love more than anything else. For us to be so young it hurts when we lose something that precious b/c we're not use to experiencing something so devastating. But I promise it does get better, you'll never forget him and no-one would expect you to, but you are young and will have another opportunity to have a baby again. I was in so much grief that I was determined to get pregnant again (which I don't recommend), because I made that decision out of grief and sadness I just wish I could have prepared better for this pregnancy because the first one wasn't planned it just happened. But that was how I handled it. I don't regret my pregnancy now, but do know there are better ways to handle it then getting pregnant right away again. I wish you the best, and I'll pray for you and your baby boy.
2007-04-24 06:56:57
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answered by Kaliyah's here! 4-30-08 7lb 2
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WOW! Sweetheart I am sorry for your lost. I know exactly how you feel. When I lost my first child it took me a long time to get over it. I had to learn that everything happens for a reason and that God knows best. It devastated me because I even saw my baby in my hands. I held my baby and it hurted so much. I used to cry day and night. But, I want you to pray to God and allow him to deliver you from that pain. In due time you will be a mother and I am sure a great mother but now wasn't the right time. I will pray for you. Ask God for strength to go thru this. All is not lost. Trust me everything will be okay. If I could go thru it and come out happy then I know you can too. Just trust God. Be blessed in the Lord.
2007-04-24 06:55:14
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answered by *ViRtUoUs WoMaN* 2
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You lost a child, it doesn't matter what age you are. If you are having trouble you should speak to someone, a counselor or a therapist. Losing a baby is difficult, I have had 2 miscarriages so I understand.
Please realize that it was not your fault. Also understand that having another baby will not take away the pain you are going through. You should wait until you are able to take care of the baby first. Concentrate on school and getting on with your life.
2007-04-24 06:46:47
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answered by Anonymous
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This is something that will pass...I mean the hurt will always be there but not as strong. I would definitely do something with the clothes, and just keep praying for strength. You will see some day that you may be too young to have a baby...so don't go rushing in to trying to conceive again...I'm sorry for your loss.
2007-04-24 06:45:48
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answered by Happy Mother of 2! 4
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I am SO SO sorry you had to experience a miscarriage. It has been less than a month- give yourself time to heal- that does not take place over night. Know that I will be praying for you- allowing time to heal, and if you believe in God know that He knows your pain and He is right there to comfort you. God bless you -
2007-04-24 09:35:21
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answered by AdoreHim 7
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Im very sorry for your loss and I will pray for you and your family so that God can grant you more strength. Grieving over a lost one is a very long and difficult process. In time you will see that your life will continue you are very young and you will be blessed again when God believes that you are a little more ready. See a professional it will help if you talk about it. Good luck and god bless!
2007-04-24 06:52:35
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answered by YD 4
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I am so sorry for your l oss. Most miscarriages happen because of severe birth defects and deformities in the fetus that make its survival impossible.
Your age also makes a healthy pregnancy more difficult since pregnant teenagers often have more serious medical complications.
Maybe you can try to see this a chance for a new lease on life for you, to focus on creating valuable frienships with your peers, your studies, your education, your career possibilities in life, and someday, marriage and buying a new home, etc.
2007-04-24 06:47:30
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answered by michaluna 2
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You need to find yourself a support group. Most hospitals have them for people who have lost a child during pregnancy. It is very important you get the help you need so that you can heal both physically and mentally. You will never forget your little boy, (I had 2 miscarriages and think about my little ones often) but in time it will get easier.
2007-04-24 06:47:11
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answered by ? 3
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