My ex and I share joint custody with our two daughters. The judge ordered they visit him during the summer months. The ex has remarried and is having terrible fights with his wife. They dispute with vulgar language in front of the children. My one daughter suffers from anxiety problems and her counselor is asking for me to find a way to keep her home this summer. Is there a way for me to do this?? She is eleven years old.
2007-04-24 05:22:03 · 5 answers · asked by sistermoon 4 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
First, try talking about this with your ex. If he loves your daughter he will change his behavior if he knows it is effecting her. Perhaps give him permission to speak to the counselor about how it is effecting your daughter. If you try to take visitation away from him in the courts, they may decide that you are just trying to be vindictive.
2007-04-24 05:28:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your Ex first. Is he aware of your daughter's anxiety? If not you need to let him know. He and your daughter do need to spend time together, but he needs to be made aware of how he and his new wife's behavior is affecting her. Maybe have her counselor sit down with both of you and try to work something out. His new wife needs to be involved too. If she cares at all about your children she will try to not fight with their dad in front of them.
2007-04-24 12:48:27 · answer #2 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes you have to go back to family court and ask the judge to revisit the case you better have good evidence and don't make it look as if your jealous.
2007-04-24 12:26:48 · answer #3 · answered by strike_eagle29 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to mediation and ask your ex Hopefully he cares enough about his girls not to put them in a bad situation
2007-04-24 12:25:37 · answer #4 · answered by maltrey 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go to court.
2007-04-24 12:27:36 · answer #5 · answered by wyllow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋