2007-04-24 05:16:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I was 14. I had my first gf then. She helped me come out and then my mom instead of waiting for me to tell her asked me point blank. 8th grade was a big year!
Ok so 14 is when I came out to family, friends etc. but I always knew.. When I was 4 I named my cabbage patch kid after the cute girl (who I think was probably 12 or 13 at the time) at my church.
Then I remember watching Madana's video on MTV "Like a Prayer" and thinking "hmm that is a funny feeling" lol
Also I had a dream at 7 that Debbie Gibson invited me backstage into her dressing room.
And of course there were girls in elementary school that i just HAD to be friends with.
Let's just say I was a horny little devil!
2007-04-24 05:17:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as I can remember I was "different" than the other kids. There were always plenty of girls to play with, but I didn't like the same things the boys liked, even though I liked hanging around with the boys.
My friend had an older brother - he was 15, almost 16 and we were 13 going on 14. I remember that guy being my first male desire. I would fantasize about being stuck in his room when he got home from school and changed clothes in his room, etc. Keep in mind, I didn't know what sex was, but I knew what his bare chest looked like.
I had my first encounter at 14 with the kid across the street - also 14. And the first time I ever "actually" came out, was... about age 17 I think. Mind you, it wasn't to my parents, but all my friends. Parents - about 25 maybe? First working environment where I felt secure... 30. I never hid it, and no one ever thought to ask, so it was just unspoken. I got used to the pronoun game. :-)
2007-04-24 05:42:30 · answer #2 · answered by stevegoryan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-04-24 06:12:22 · answer #3 · answered by pjonkml 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-04-24 05:23:36 · answer #4 · answered by Gaymes Last Orchestra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
19 when I came out to some of my friends and 20 when I came out to my parents and family.
2007-04-24 05:50:00 · answer #5 · answered by Bill 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my first real expierience was at 9/10. came out to some friends at 18 came out to family 23-26 out to parents not yet.
2007-04-24 11:57:08 · answer #6 · answered by Joe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i came out when i was 13
2007-04-24 05:33:13 · answer #7 · answered by matthew h 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
20 when i came out to my friends, 22 when i came out to my family.
2007-04-24 05:53:37 · answer #8 · answered by Raynebow_Diva 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My nephew was 13 or 14.
2007-04-24 07:23:09 · answer #9 · answered by Tina Goody-Two-Shoes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
12 when i first came out it feels so, long ago
2007-04-24 07:17:23 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋