I'm a 34A and for the longest time I have felt as if they are too small. My boyfriend tells me they're fine and I always come back with saying there is nothing there and what not. But I mean if you had to go through life constantly being teased about it, would you like this size. I was smaller before i was 18, but only went up one bra size. You tell me. Should I be unhappy forever or get the implants.
2007-04-24
05:13:49
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I've heard it all, I'm 21 and I probably know more about this subject than doctors. I don't need anyone telling me it's the I was intended to be.
2007-04-24
05:42:55 ·
update #1
I've heard it all, I'm 21 and I probably know more about this subject than doctors. I don't need anyone telling me it's the I was intended to be. I don't seem to grasp why I can't be more blessed. And almost everyone else can.
2007-04-24
05:43:29 ·
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I used to think my breasts were too small too. I was a 32a, but at the time I was also only 18, 5 foot nothing and 95 pounds.I am now 25, 5'3 and 160 and a 36c.
I myself would never get implants, but if you want them, that is your decision. Don't let people tell you what you should or shouldn't do. Think on it, long and hard before making a decision. And if you still feel you want implants, go for it. It is your body.
One thing I can't stand is when people say "you should love your body, or this is how you were meant to be, accept it". The fact is, some people can't and never will love or accept their body. And if augmentation will make them happier and more confident about themselves and their body, then who are we to tell them it's wrong?
Think about it girl...and do what YOU feel is the right thing for you.
2007-04-24 09:32:58
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answered by myzeri_rat 2
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An A cup can be a blessing, You can wear almost anything and it will look great. You won't fall out of it and can show off with a great bra. If you boyfriend is sending you mixed signals. Replace him before thinking you have an imperfection. A lot of men out there will tell you more than a hand-full is too much, then there are some that like a few hand-fulls.
If others are teasing you replace them too. Your friends should love you for who you are not what your breasts size is or is not.
If implants are what you feel will make you happy, than talk to a plastic surgeon. Research all you can about it. If you have them enlarged, you may not find your happiness there. You have to accept yourself first.
2007-04-24 12:27:39
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answered by MaryJean 2
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34A...
Are enough breast to do the job. What job is that??? Feed future children!
Hon, in this world we live in we have placed WAY too much emphasis on our physical characteristic and have lost the real focus of what all of this stuff was placed on us for. I mean how big do breast need to be to feed a hungry baby???
Your breast are the size they are by the designers (the Lord's) idea of what he thought made you beautiful in his sight. (and possibly what would be needed to supply your future children with nourishment!)
Unfortunately in this world today if most women aren't lugging around 40DD D's you are considered "small breasted."
Come on!! They are just breast! Toys for your man to suck and goggle while you walk and milk jugs for the kiddies!
If you are that insecure about the "size", as you suggested you can go get implants; but consider the risks as well as the benefits of that decision.
You sound like you are young and I think you need to embrace that which you have before going out and altering nature...doing that sometimes causes more trouble than it's worth.
Take it from an ample breasted woman, big ones can get bothersome, like excess sweat, rashes, weird odors, pain when exercising and really expensive supports (ie:bras) to keep this babies saluting the sun!!!...they aren't all they are cracked up to be!
Hope I helped!
2007-04-24 12:39:00
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answered by Lashadon 2
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Well I'm a 30A and I wouldn't say it's perfect.
But I like it the way it is and I wouldn't want to have it changed. I don't want people to like me for the way I look like but for the person I am.
And actually I would really never want to have implants. No matter what the others say.
So should you. You shouldn't care about people who tease you cause of your bra size ... those people usually have a problem about their self-confidence. And that won't change if you get bigger breasts ...
2007-04-24 12:33:37
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answered by tine 4
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I think if you are really unhappy then get surgery.
But. Having small boobs isnt a bad thing.. im only 15 and im a 34E. It can be nice sometimes but. Its horrible having to ALWAYS where a really suportive bra and for your boobs to already be lower than they should really be.
I do have a friend who is a 32A and she has the most amazing boobs. Shes small but she has a great cleavage and her boobs are high :p.
I think you should only get the surgery if you think that it will make you a happier person, and more comfortable with yourself etc.
hope that helps a bit.
and good luck if you do decide to.
2007-04-24 13:21:32
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answered by missstokeypoke 1
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I would love to be that size....I have large breast and they are annoying. They make my back sore and I can't buy the cute little bras. Just be happy with what you got. Unless you make your money by using your breast then who really cares. I think you should look inside yourself to make you happy.
If implants make you happy then get them only you know that answer. Did you try a padded bra? Victoria's Secret has many bras that make you look bigger.
Good Luck.
2007-04-24 13:50:12
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answered by Anonymous
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Be happy with what you have and be proud of them. If they look good, feel good and he is happy, then be thankful for what you have. They may be on the small side, but they probably look and feel pretty good. Just as many men love them on the small side as they do the big side. There are plenty of issue that could be worse: lopsided breasts/nipples – one huge, one small, they could be disformed, one could stick out with the other looks deflated, one regular nipple and and inverted. Small is the least of your worries.
Skip the implant risk and cost. Maybe 1 in 500 surgeries goes bad (botched job/complications/death). Are you willing to take that risk?
2007-04-24 12:49:04
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answered by Anonymous
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There's no such thing as too small or too large (except, in too large, if they're causing chronic orthopaedic problems). There's only loving and accepting yourself for yourself.
This has nothing to do with your breasts and everything to do with how you see yourself. There really is no surgical mutilation of any type that can help with that.
Check the links below.
2007-04-24 12:23:30
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answered by Anonymous
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2007-04-25 02:06:58
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answered by Alicia 2
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I'm in the same boat. I'm 25, 5' and 90lbs. I have no boobs either. I don't feel like a woman. I am considering getting breast augmentation but I only want to go up to a B. I don't want big boobs I just want to feel and look like a woman. My boob size has always bothered me and I think it always will until I get them done. Good luck. Your not the only one so don't worry to much about it. http://www.thomasmedical.com
2007-04-24 12:44:30
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answered by Anonymous
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