I am amazed at how boring most of you housewives are. What happened to all of the uninhibited playful wives?

Question

The 80's and early 90's were fun. Nowadays, you wives are the most boring pieces of work I have ever seen.

My wife was right, most American women do not know how to relax and have fun. My wife is from Helsinki, Finland where they are SO OPEN MINDED. I love that country.

Debra B, sounds like you are a candidate for having some real fun before you get too old. A last hurrah if you will. LOL You go girl.

Answer 1

Tell ya what sport. I quit being a housewife so I could be more playful and do what I wanted, when I wanted, and with who I wanted. I couldnt stand the stifling confinement of marriage.
Now I live life on my terms and am a true free spirit. Ive never been happier. I now understand what Ive heard men say about how they could never be satisfied staying with one woman. Variety baby.......the spice of life.

Answer 2

You are actually right. I'm a housewife and many of my friends dread sex or fun of any kind. They nag about daily chores and how hard the work is. I agree that it's hard but finding the joy in the little things makes it all worthwhile. I think it takes a real effort to keep things exciting. I think relaxing and having fun is one of the most important parts of a great marriage. I love finding new ways to be fun and entertaining, I see it as part of my daily responsibilities. When you enjoy the life you've chosen its WAYYY more fun. Giggling about what you'll do later with hubby makes for some fun and entertaining laundry doing. It's all about attitude and gratitude. I'm thankful that we've built a life that we love and grateful that I get to stay at home and take care of our house and kids. I'm also thankful that when the kids go to bed...its OUR time!! Wooooohoo...planning something fun for tonight ;)

Answer 3

I think women nowadays forget that they married their spouses because they were fun. In my last marriage in the beginning we had fun, but then she changed slowly. She didn't want to be playful any more. I think if you remain playful then it keeps everything alive.
The others on here that think just because the wife takes care of the kids, the house and things like that a wife is too tired. Well, men get tired too, but we still want to be playful with our wives. I don't think all American women are this way, but it seems like it.

Answer 4

there is greater accessible then you definately think of. once you initiate doing the comparable element many times you become bored and what a metamorphosis. in the journey that your better half won't exchange you initiate looking. it somewhat is while the hardship starts. the adult males are in the comparable situation searching for you, then you definately've have been given a can of worms. If there is infants in touch you have a actual project. there are techniques for help like counseling, sit down down talks.

Answer 5

Boring???? Most of the housewives I know are not boring and I'm one of them. I ride a Harley, not on the back, I have my own, we live on 25 acres of mountain ground, I host parties every weekend from the time it gets warm till it gets cold, I like to every once in a while greet my husband at the door in his favorite outfit (my birthday suit) and I like to go meet him for lunch & put a smile on his face.

Answer 6

You sound pretty boring to me. And if a wife becomes boring, she is mimicking what she learns from her husband. My hubby with rather hang out with me than anyone else. We have a ball together and not sometimes, all the time. Sounds like you loused up a marriage or two somewhere. Don't worry, you'll louse this one up to.

Answer 7

Good, then move your sorry *** over there. We won't miss you one bit. Most American woman are hard working women that have children to care for, a career to tend to and most have sorry lazy shits of a husband like you they have deal with on a daily basis. And open minded I take it as in "while your working she is fuking every other John with STD's" this way she can be sure to give you something to remember her by for the rest of your life. American woman ROCK....AMERICA ROCKS..you just suck......lol

Answer 8

Isolation happened. Most women in this country are the only ones on their street at home. The other women are in offices, factories, and stores squeezing out a living. This isn't a 'Nanny State" like Finland.

Answer 9

Well, Hedda, your attitude is why men don't like American women. So don't be surprised to find yourself old and alone, with only your cats and vibrator to keep you company.

Edit: to Lisa D. "nothing like having American citizenship"
Funny a skank like you would say something catty about non-American women. Finland has a great standard of living and you just show your complete ignorance and insecurity in saying dumb things like that.

Answer 10

My husband and I have been together for almost 20 years, we have three boys..so we haven't missed too many meetings between the sheets.

We still keep things "interesting"....he works downtown near a hotel I've done everything from reserve a room for a lunchtime "snack" to meeting him for lunch in a easy access dress. (sorry no more details). We're both spoiled rotten.

As for your choice to marry a women outside the usa..you obviously couldn't find one who possibly didn't make you feel insecure. Kudos for her..nothing like having American citizenship.