My hudsband worships his video game and sex.I am thinking about leaving him,I dont feel that i have to wait after6 years of being in a relationship,for him to leave his x box 360 .I AM SICK OF IT! Can anyone relat to this I dont want feel crazy and alone in this tell me i aint krazy.
2007-04-24 04:16:16 · 21 answers · asked by the eighties 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I tryied everything dates,attepting romance ,i cook ,,clean, and sexy night gowns ,he hits and go right back to the game. what now?
2007-04-24 04:19:57 · update #1
this morning he tryied to play a love making cd in it and found that it was broke , You know what he told me ? he said that i probably did it and that he wa going to buy another one should i still give him some cause he is asking me to, and i know that afterwards he is going to dogg me out.
2007-04-24 04:22:44 · update #2
i say you stop doing all the above things you mentioned. start spending more time away from him and out of the house. if he's used to food and a clean house and you ready for him in the bedroom he must be thinking he's living the life! stop cleaning (to a point), stop cooking HIM dinner, don't wash his clothes. don't be so willing to have sex w/him.
and, if it comes down to you leaving, maybe then he'll realize that his life is passing him by as he sits in front of the t.v.
good luck.
2007-04-24 04:26:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard having a relationship w/ a guy who is always so into his sports! Even though u might fight, yell or bicker at him to spend more time w/ u...guys will be guys. It's like a man telling his women she can't go shoe shopping anymore. Just tell him that it's ok for him to watch his sports but to keep it to a minimum, tell him that he should make more time for you b/c u feel like his sport watching is becoming an issue w/ your time and energy to be w/ him/spend time w/ him. If u guys could compromise a lil'...like for example: Say " Honey, I know u r into ur sports, but can we maybe go out sometime". Or maybe u should just keep his mind off of it with a lil' tlc if u know what I mean.
2007-04-24 11:23:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happens all the time. Sounds bad if your going to leave him. Relationships become boring and routine after a given time but games are always exciting and they don't talk back. Tell him he needs to cut down the playing time or it's over.
2007-04-24 11:20:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can relatemy husband is obsessive with drugrunners.net and will evenget mad and start giving attitude to me and our kids when something goes wrong in the game. I HATE it!!
my advice is if you love him and want to work it out then find your own hobby. while he is gaming read magazines or go out for drinks with friends or something like that. After a night away from his stress you should feel better. if u really cant deal than get out of the situation
2007-04-24 11:22:01 · answer #4 · answered by jamie_south1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can relate. When I was pregnant with my youngest son his father
cared more about his car then the fact i was hemorrhaging for the second time. I made him choose and the car won. Now the cars gone and he's alone he wants to come back. I DON"T THINK SO.
2007-04-24 11:22:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
HAHAHA I laugh because I have a husband who is addicted to his computer games,,, I guess the best thing is to talk about it... and make some sort of compromise.... (like only so many hours,, and i'll do this for you instead) or something....
2007-04-24 12:07:34 · answer #6 · answered by steensagenious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break the damn box, or scratch the game or something. if u have a nephew or little cousins let them "borrow" it.
but then stunts like these are why i am not married...
on the other hand, u could find a hobby that takes u away from him and his nonsense.
2007-04-24 11:26:39 · answer #7 · answered by miss lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I KNOW WHAT YOU MEAN!!!!!! I HATE the damn x-box!!!! When he's not working, he is playing!!!! I'm ready to break that thing and bury it in my back yard! Anywho, we've chatted about it, he's finally trying to work on setting it aside a little. We'll see how it goes. Good luck to you woman!
2007-04-24 11:21:57 · answer #8 · answered by luv2love 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have you tried showing a little interest in his games and asking him to show a little interest in your activities? you should both try and compromise and get involved in what the other likes. my ex was crazy into video games and i hated it until i picked up a controller myself and saw what it was all about, now i'm a master at certain games and enjoy kicking my fiance's butt! you should sit down and talk to him and tell him how upset you are
2007-04-24 11:21:19 · answer #9 · answered by JM 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well...i bet u didnt know that u can trip with a soft drink in your hand, and unfortunately it could go all over the x box....dont leave him sweetie...work it out, blow the x box by accident.
2007-04-24 11:19:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋