should i move on or wait for her or give her a space?

Question

we been in a relationship for an year and lately for about last 2 months
this girl is acting weird ..i feel trying to avoid me..calling me less what she used to
but i was very patient with her though she gets mad at me over the phone for no reason ..
i know i am not being panaroid but i asked her if something is bothering her she said nothing is bothering
her its just that she got busy with work..(ours is a 3 hrs time difference)
(she has a email that she specifically made for my emails and she told me the password months back
and about a month back she changed the password too but i did not tell her this that she did that)
3 weeks back i had to go somewhere and she called (very casual talks) i told her once i reach i will call her (she said ok very casually)

i texted her cos tght she was sleeping..i did not got any reply from her.. next day morning i called her up and it was turned off
and i left her a voice that she could call when she wakes up..3 hrs later i called her up again and phone rang
now she calls me when she feels like..until last week (monday) i asked her that this is unfair and if she is seeing someone
lets move on and asked her to be honest ..she said why would she talk to me..if she is seeing someone and she said
she never expected this from me..i asked her then tell me what does she wants..she said she needs to think over about herself
and after that neither she called me and nor i called her up.
what do u suggest guys ?

Answer 1

I know this is hard to think about espcially since you have been in this realtionship for a year but it could have been several years.
Don't think about the wha ifs think about how this person is showing you how they care about you.
Actions speak louder than any word.
You never treat someone you care about in a way that would hurt them. Never.
She doesn't want to tell you probably because she doesn't wnat to hurt you but her actions are just as hurtfull.
Have the strenghth to move on. Take it one day at a time.
This will not be your last realtionship. you deserve better.
She will be back. They always come back to the good ones. So, if you where a good one love yourself enough to know that you deserve a good person as well.

Answer 2

I read one of your other questions about this girl. To me it sounds like you are being too desperate and needy. You need to back off and give her her space! How many times a day do you call, write email, IM, etc? If she is 3 hours away from you, that girl has a life and you need to let her take care of business. Stop being stuck up her *ss! That will only annoy her further.

If she is just going through a stressful time at work, you are adding stress to her day by being so demanding and needy. You are sucking her energy out, making her feel even worse! This will only end in destruction if you don't stop your demands! Send her some flowers and chocolate and a message of positivity!

Answer 3

mmk i may not be a guy but i think i know whats up!!!!
She is getting less intrested and it is basically at the point where there is really nothing else you can do but end the realtionship and move on to someone else!!!!
I dont think that she is having an affair with someone else but you never know she might and just be good at hiding it!!!!
Let it go and move on (and i meant that nicely) she is not worth your time if she is acting like this sounds to me that she is playing games and needs to stop.....


xoxo


Courtney

Answer 4

You've stated your part. Now you need to wait and see if she gets back in touch with you. If she does, then you know she is still interested, if she doesn't then it's time to move on.

Personally I think she was trying to break up with you and was hoping that you would take the hint.

Answer 5

u sound like a stalker, but just give her space and stop being so desperate and just wait to see what happen,because the thing with women is when u give them too much attention they hate that and when u give them less attention and keep going on with your life, they some how seem to want u more.

Answer 6

i think you should just forget about her for some period of time
maybe she need some rest in this relationship or she's just isnt prepared yet to move on any further.
think properly b4 u make another move or say anything to her

Answer 7

Sounds like she's trying to leave gracefully without trouble

Answer 8

You should just make your story straight to the point.....it gets boring and confusing.......

just move on........she's not worth it......enjoy life.