I am open minded, have nothing against bi sexuality. He also says he's faithful.
2007-04-24 04:00:53 · 18 answers · asked by JaguarWoman 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Also, we are in our 50s, if that makes a difference, and I think it does. Our expectations and needs are different than they were in our 20s or 30s.
2007-04-24 04:27:45 · update #1
IF he truly is faithful.
Only thing. you don't only have to worry about him cheating with a woman, but also a MAN>
2007-04-24 04:04:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think it could if you make sure you really explore what your marriage will be about. Make sure you're on the same page. Does he have certain expectations that you're not aware of? Does he want you to be open to the idea of him having occasional sex with men? Can he commit to just one sex? Has he ever done it in the past and did it work? I think as long as you are both comfortable with the boundaries you choose for your marriage it can work, sure. With any marriage, question everything. Play "what if". Decide what your personal deal breakers are.
Good luck :)
2007-04-24 04:07:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That would depend on the two of you. My opinion: Cheating is cheating even if it is with the same sex. Some people don't see it that way. Does he want to have you AND a man? or just you? Marriage, other than the leagal stuff, is a promise between two people to be together, beyond-best-friends-you-and-me-against-the-world kind of together. to support eachother no matter what.
Are either of you ready and willing to make that kind of commmitment to another person? Is he willing to give up men to be with you? if not... would you be willing to allow him a man in his life as well as you?
The two of you should sit down and really talk this all out.. what the expectations are on either side.
In love, light and blessings
2007-04-24 04:18:24 · answer #3 · answered by realpaganwoman13 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
WOW - I hate to say this, but unless you are willing to at some point allow a third party nto your marriage - then NO! If he is truely bi-sexual, he will never be totally satisfied with one or the other sexually & sex is 50% of a marriage.
2007-04-24 04:07:03 · answer #4 · answered by martiek7 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You hit the nail on the head when you mentioned open minded. I think both open minded men and women can handle their spouse being bi and if you are really open minded, join in the fun.
However, I think most are not open minded enough to handle it that includes men. My wife is bi and I am very open minded about it. We enjoy our 3rds.
2007-04-24 04:05:42 · answer #5 · answered by sxycpl4ya 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
wow I think this would have to be SOOOO discussed between you. ok say he marries you THEN the other part of his sex needs kicks in... The part that needs a man... ARE YOU WILLING to strap on something to meet his needs.... WILL that meet his needs or will he need the real thing.....and later would he decide he wants the other instead of you........... I mentally do not know That I personally could handle this but I know there are a lot that do. You have to search your own heart and soul on this one and do what you feel is BEST FOR YOU
NOT BEST FOR HIM
2007-04-24 04:07:43 · answer #6 · answered by Peggy C 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Of course it can work if the man is commited. Being bisexual doesnt have to mean that he cant not have sex with other men. It means that he is attracted to both sexes, but he chose you. As long as he can be faithful to the person he is with, bisexuality shouldnt be an issue. Good luck!
2007-04-24 04:10:28 · answer #7 · answered by My two cents 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you're basically homophobic in case you're frightened of gay human beings or are completely against them. i've got self assurance marriage is barely between a guy and a female, yet i've got had distinctive gay buddies in my life. I merely have self assurance some thing distinctive than they do. that is merely like how i don't think you ought to have intercourse formerly you're married, yet i'm nevertheless buddies with people who do. i've got not got a similar ideals as them, yet i don't hate them.
2016-11-27 01:06:31 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you would have to be very open minded! he would fufil his desire for women with you, but how would he fufil his desire for men? would you be prepared to let him 'see' men on the side? sounds like a receipe for disaster to me, but if you are happy with the set up then do what you feel is best. good luck.
2007-04-24 04:04:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i don't know. i just wldnt feel comfortable being with a man who likes men. especially if he's a little feminine..thats a turn off.
2007-04-24 04:04:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋