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Are u attracted to a certain race? if so, which one? aside from stereotypes, what are the benefits n downers? more details the better...

2007-04-24 03:57:28 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science Gender Studies

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I tend to be attracted to darker skinned men - darker than me that is. I'm white. My significant other is multi-racial. He is black, Panamanian, and American Indian. My ex-husband (11 years) is also multi-racial.

I'm not attracted to them for any particular benefit over other races. I don't exclude other races from my dating pool - I just take each person at face value and make my decision based on that.

They must possess a high degree of intelligence, a good sense of humor, and be passionate and creative about something in their life.

2007-04-24 04:04:46 · answer #1 · answered by J F 6 · 0 0

Dude I ain't in any relationship.... I'm not attracted to any Race in peculiar and I don't think theres much of a difference between them. It's all in their personalities. Yes, most Black males are into the raper type BS, but what about Mexicans? They're into that stuff too, for who on the moon knows why reasons?? More 'n more White boys are getting into it too, because it's the 'In Thing', now.

This day 'n age, Race matters even less then it did when WAS a big deal. Is this a good thing? It's debatable....

2007-04-24 15:09:00 · answer #2 · answered by Twili 6 · 0 0

I'm not in a mixed race relationship at the moment. I'm very single but I've dated plenty of other races.

Guys I've dated in the past: Asian, Persian, Arab, Hispanic, Native American etc...

- Benefits - well it's always nice when you meet someone and a share a number of things in common. despite the fact that you have such different backgrounds, it makes the relationship a little more interesting.

The downside in my experience is that I never want to believe any of the stereotypes, but sometimes I find some of them true in certain circumstances... Like possessive guys, or ones that are very superficial. Too much machismo. I once dated a guy who yelled at me for something ridiculous early in the relationship. He didn't seem to have a problem yelling at me, but I was so scared. We ended it that day.

2007-04-24 11:08:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3 0

lol I look at ones heart not their race. For me though there are certain looks that I am attracted to when I look for a girlfriend I like white, asian and sometimes indian (from india) women. I like the small figure. I like redheads too...any red heads out there feel free to write me ;)
I personaly dont like the term mixed raced relationship there is only one race the human one.
I don't think that what I look for would be considered mixed race relationship as that I am white.

2007-04-24 11:12:13 · answer #4 · answered by KarmicFacilitator2000 3 · 1 0

What? Name ONE PLACE in the bible that states that it is a sin to date outside of one's race.... geez...scary when the backwoods racists get a computer and "learnt themselves up" on how to use it....

I am married to the same man for the past 14 years. We are not mixed race, but I do believe that it is the person as a whole that matters, and that is what we are teaching our daughters. We would not care what race the person they brought home to meet us is - they are being taught that it is the heart and soul that makes the person, not the skin.

2007-04-24 11:54:59 · answer #5 · answered by Mugg 3 · 1 0

I am a caucasian from the U.S living in Cairo, Egypt. I am engaged to an Egyptian girl. Arabic women are the most beautiful in the world. The dark brown olive shaped eyes kill me. The benefits are simple, they are loyal to a fault and are all woman ( I dont mean that in a sexist way). The downers, obviously the culture difference and the language.

2007-04-24 11:08:42 · answer #6 · answered by tquinlivan 2 · 1 1

Yes. My partner is from South Africa, and he is ethnically Zulu. So we are mixed-"race" and mixed-culture.

I'm not attracted to any particular ethnicity (there are no human biological races); I am attracted to individuals. My man is intelligent and gentle and caring and has an enormous heart. He also happens to be hot, but that's just a side benefit.

2007-04-24 19:55:28 · answer #7 · answered by stormsinger1 5 · 0 0

I'm a half-Caucasian, half-Hispanic dating a Japanese girl. The only benefit and downer I can think of is the language. I get to learn it, but it's a pain in the butt sometimes to speak it.

2007-04-24 13:54:49 · answer #8 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 0 0

Not currently, but I'm white and I have in the past dated a few black men and a few Japanese men. I'm not attracted to one race in particular, I'm more attracted to tall men with great personalities that are intelligent and make me laugh. One of the black men I dated seemed to have an obsession with white women which bothered me a little, but other than that there weren't many differences. My grandparents are racist so they wouldn't accept them, but I tried not to let that get to me.

2007-04-24 11:00:50 · answer #9 · answered by Lowa 5 · 0 0

I'm only into white guys, and I'm whiter than sour cream. I have no quarrel with other races whatsoever, but there's just no attraction there.

2007-04-24 12:51:54 · answer #10 · answered by Rio Madeira 7 · 0 0

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