Just curious because I was caught naked by my neighbors wife. It is routine for me to strip down in our back yard and drink a couple of beers after doing yard work when it is hot. Our backyard is private and I never worried about being caught until Jan caught me a month ago. She was standing on a ladder trimming climbing rose bushes along her fence. I did not hear or see her, then I glance toward her house and saw her smiling at me.
Here is my dilemma, she is coming over more often, calling me over to help her with something around her house when her hubby is out of town. She is flirting with more than ever. Here is the kicker, she is very attractive with the most pleasant personality I have ever been around. I find her hard to resist now. I don't know, something came over me about her lately and I am having nasty thoughts. In this case, I cannot tell my wife because this would not fly doing it in secret.
How should I handle and have any of you wives experienced anything like this
2007-04-24 03:37:21 · 20 answers · asked by sxycpl4ya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The funny thing about this is I don't view her as a problem, I view her as excitement.
2007-04-24 03:55:12 · update #1
Well...if I saw my neighbor naked in his yard (I'm a woman)...I'd whistle just to playfully embarrass him. I would not start coming on to him (married or not). Your neighbor sounds like a woman with questionable character (perhaps a skank)...If you are willing to give up your marriage and if your character is as low as hers...go for it. Sounds like you might be a good match for her. Just leave your wife alone for God's sake! UGH!!
2007-04-24 03:52:36 · answer #1 · answered by luvofrosalitas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since your question was what would I do if I saw a neighbor guy naked my answer is that I would not do what your neighbor is doing. I would not get flirty and come on to you. If we were good friends I would tease you and ask how much you were willing to pay for the video I shot.(whether it existed or not) Maybe threaten to show it the next time the girls in the neighborhood got together.....fun stuff like that.
2007-04-24 04:41:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u sound like u are ready to explore a relationship with ur neighbor. dont do that to ur wife.
as a matter of fact, man up! tell ur wife what happened. and as far as the lady next door make sure she is around when u tell ur wife.
dont destroy ur home over ur neighbor's wife. imagine if things were reversed, the hubby next door was in the nude and ur wife saw and started flirting...
2007-04-24 03:54:51 · answer #3 · answered by miss lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your wife go nude in the yard as well? If yes is the answer the next time you and your wife are nude in the yard invite the neighbor to shed her clothes and join you. Your profile shows you are swinger. Obviously you woluld enjoy the neighbors company.
2007-04-24 03:56:15 · answer #4 · answered by cgynotanlines 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, avoid the woman.. Explain the mishap to your wife..and maybe even her husband. That way you come clean and she has to deal with the consequences..
I have never had this issue, but IF this happen in my home I would want hubby to tell me and have a meeting with the neighbors.. even though embarassing, it will be better for all of you in the long run.. You cant keep this up...(no pun intended)
2007-04-24 03:44:02 · answer #5 · answered by giveu2tictacs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, if I saw my neighbor naked EEWWW. Then id tell my husband, wed have a good laugh and that would be the end of it. To pursue it any further would be dumb. You are both married, you wanna fool around better get your wife's input so she can kick you out. Good luck on that decision.
2007-04-24 03:41:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see what the problem is with your life style. As you posted above, your wife brings women into the bedroom once a month for you, so you bring this one.
You are SOOOOOOOOOO making all of this stuff up.
Get a life!
2007-04-24 04:25:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all have a discussion with your wife about sunbathing nude. second of all grow up. 2 wrongs don't make a right.
2016-05-17 10:28:12 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This lady has been watching too many episodes of desperate housewives! Leave that alone, she seems really trifling and she will tell your wife if you give in to her! Just let her keep thinking about what she saw and keep being jealous that your wife get you whenever she wants. Please dont do it!!
2007-04-24 03:51:45 · answer #9 · answered by marinewife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow she must of liked what she saw. tell her the truth. you are married and cannot continue to help her so much becasue you dont want to casue problems in your marriage. being a married woman she wshould eunderstand. she probally liked the extra attentiopn from someone new and is taking it for granted. just tell her no.
2007-04-24 03:41:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋