I havent washed up made a bed done any shopping
do you think he will mind ?
2007-04-24 02:21:50 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
im doing just the same...eating jaffa cakes letting my 18 mth old play..its great int it.
enjoy it we dont have to do everything all the time!!
2007-04-24 02:25:02 · answer #1 · answered by BABY YASMIN BORN 24TH FEB 09 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not If You Both Have True Love In Your Marriage. In A Marriage You Are Allowed Free Time For Your Self. I Would Not Make It A Habit Because, The Home Does Need Some Cleaning. EveyOnes Home Needs To Be Cleaned At One Time Or Another.
2007-04-24 02:31:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just break the work up into smaller pieces. Fill the sink with hot water and let dishes soak for 20 minutes, then you can come back on here do the questions thing. After 20 minutes wash the dishes then come back on here for 45 minutes then make the bed. How hard is that?
2007-04-24 02:27:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Telling him in not the respond, it won't make you sense extra suitable and maximum persons of those that are cheated on will end the marriage. There are some able to forgive yet they in no way forget and your life should not be a similar afterwords. except you think of he will discover out from somebody else keep your moth close, sure that is eating you up yet this is your penalty on your strikes, sharing it with him will basically harm him and your toddlers. In time in case you do not do it back you will have the skill to place it at the back of you in spite of the undeniable fact that it is going to take a protracted time for that to take place. Why destroy distinctive lives for one mistake whether it replaced into made distinctive cases. human beings do not cheat on those they love except some thing is incorrect interior the relationship, decide what replaced into incorrect that made you cheat and paintings on fixing it and keep your mouth close. not something stable will come of telling absolutely everyone!
2016-11-27 00:55:57 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him like it is........I had no motivation to do the house work today.
The housework isn't going anywhere is it? It will still be there tommorow.
Then make a deal with yourself. Get the majority done in the morning and have the afternoon to play!!!
Or you could do a really half *** job in like 10 min and hope he won't notice. LOL
2007-04-24 02:26:09 · answer #5 · answered by Philly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your husband. If I don't get to anything my husband comes home and just starts to pick up. I am not usually like that though. He understands that sometimes I get involved in what I am doing and he doesn't complain. But I always make it up to him that evening before we retire. I don't have to, I just chose to. Do something nice for him. A back rub, sex or whatever he may want.
2007-04-24 02:30:06 · answer #6 · answered by lily_florance 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
one of the worst things you can do in your marriage is lie about your day to make staying at home sound like it's laborious and on the level of his job.
there have been days where i had to stay home with our son instead of go to work (if he's sick or something) and if i just sit and play with him all day, then i tell my husband just that! usually he is happy to hear that we enjoyed our day and had a good time!
husbands need to understand that we need moments to ourselves and we shouldn't feel guilty for that!
i'm sure he doesn't work 100% of the time while he's at work. i'm sure there are stolen moments of joking with co-workers or internet surfing....
so, just be honest. tell him that you stole some moments for yourself and indulged in answering Q online!! just, give yourself a limit and decide that at say, noon, you will stop and do some things around the house!
take care and never feel guilty about enjoying your life:)
2007-04-24 02:28:10 · answer #7 · answered by joey322 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him this......"you wont believe this hun, but I was on my way to do the shopping and realized I had forgotten my purse, and so went back to fetch it, so in the house I found my purse but realized I had lots the keys, so couldnt go out out, I spent the entire day looking for the keys and luckily found them just as you walked thru the door (hence not cleaning up)...So how was your day dear?"....
It always works for me;)
2007-04-24 02:34:52 · answer #8 · answered by §P¡©ë¥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grab the spray polish and squirt every room and have a duster in your hand when he comes in and don't forget to puff and pant and tell him you've done nothing but polish and clean the insides of the windows all day.
2007-04-24 02:25:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends, are you always doing this or do you normally have everything together? If you are the first, then you need to get what you can done before you have to admit you are slacking because you're always online. If it the last one, then hey, sometimes you deserve a break.
2007-04-24 02:26:10 · answer #10 · answered by cinnatigg 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nah, he won't mind, When he comes home just sit him down and give him a good BJ! that should do the trick and take his mind off all this!
2007-04-24 07:23:21 · answer #11 · answered by bckatcha! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋