First let me explain the situation... I was in a wonderful relationship with someone who I thought was a wonderful person. A dance was coming up and I was unable to go when he asked me to a week before the dance. The day of the dance, I was able to go so I told him and went. He called me and told me that he made other plans and would not be able to come. I was mad so I tried to have the funnest time I could. I ended up kissing someone else then bringing them in the bathroom to continue and JUST kiss. Afterwards, I called and told him. He got mad and broke up with me. A few days after he called my best friend and told him that he had sex with someone else the day after we broke up. The person he had sex with was someone that was his friend while we were going out. I know that we were not going out at the time that he had sex with his friend, but I still feel hurt and sad. I kno i am the one who he should be mad at, but i am mad at him. He continues to apologize which means he is wrong.?
2007-04-24 02:12:59 · 10 answers · asked by TOMUCH IS GIVEN MUCH IS REQUIRED 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You cheated, minus the sex, but he went all the way? You told him about your indescretion, but he told someone else about his? OKAY! If the two of you are going to be together, you have to forgive and move past it. I can't tell you to forget it because that is next to impossible to do. If the two of you care about each other and want it to work, you can't dwell on what has happened though. You should feel hurt because he only gave the breakup one day before he went out and got some!
2007-04-24 02:26:36 · answer #1 · answered by Wynne B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologizing in and of itself does not mean he is wrong or that he even thinks he is. I'm not saying he isn't but getting an apology isn't a black-and-white thing. You were BOTH wrong! But the DAY after you broke up, he had sex with someone else. That speaks volumes about your relationship. Move on! Neither of you needs to be in this relationship.
2007-04-24 02:24:55 · answer #2 · answered by happylittlemom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First two wrongs dont make a right. You kissed the other boy behind your boyfriends back and when he broke up with you only then did he have sex with someone else. this is not cheating you and he were not dating anymore. Forgive and forget and move on with your relationship or if your going to go around kissing other guys break up with your boyfriend and date around.
2007-04-24 02:32:09 · answer #3 · answered by bbinqueens33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means nothing you couldn't keep your hands off the guy you were at the dance with and so the both of you broke up, so he chose to sleep with someone else this means that neither of you are ready for a relationship and you don't need to be together period.
2007-04-24 02:17:53 · answer #4 · answered by Mary O 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a ough situation, but you know what, wether you would like to believe it or not, everything happens for a reason. I believe he could have also done it out of spite. Do you think they could have had sex while you were going out, seeing that he had sex with her right after you broke up?
2007-04-24 02:17:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're wrong. He's not. He is a fool for wanting you back. You're obviously not worth investing emotions or trust into. Do him a favor; do not go back with him. Let him find someone he can actually trust and be happy with. But you wont do that because you're self-centered, egocentric and selfish.
2007-04-24 02:25:30 · answer #6 · answered by PTY Smoooth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he had sex with her before you broke up too, so now that you kno about it he feels bad. did you get back with him? If so make sure he's not still hanging out with that "friend"
2007-04-24 02:17:18 · answer #7 · answered by vbolden88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cheated on him, then he slept with someone else when he was single, probably out of hurt.
So you're in the wrong, and he's not.
2007-04-24 02:20:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think best thing is to let him go. Once you lose trust in someone it is hard to let them go.
2007-04-24 02:38:23 · answer #9 · answered by mickey 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, he is not wrong, you are.
2007-04-24 02:16:41 · answer #10 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋