ive been seperated from my husband for only 5 weeks i still care about him and think of him everyday?

Question

is it too early to start dating i have been getting calls from other men for a dinner date or should i give myself more time we where together for 3 years and it was a rocky relationship no communication and i say communication is everything but i do still think about him ty so much for your input jewels tc

Answer 1

Just forget about him.
Follow the key to happy married life if you don’t want to repeat the same experience.
Is your Ex (if you think he is) having same feelings like you if so explore the possibility of getting remarried. Why not?

Key to happy married life.
Married life needs lot of adjustments. Before marriage both of you are more than eager to accommodate but it is not possible forever. Remember blood group compatibility is a must for having healthy babies. Find out about interests in various activities. Best way is to ask him/she to make a list and you can do the same and match them. If more than 50% match is not there life becomes boring soon. Most important is what You don’t like and tolerance level.
The best way to handle burden in married life and make it happy is to learn how to balance the needs of sharing caring and recognition.
Good luck. Heat to heart discussion is the key.
Read “what is that you want” given in know your source
Good luck.

Answer 2

If you still care for the husband...Time to try to figure how to work the relationship out. Communication is important but men have a hard time with it. You and he do need to talk. Marriage isn't suppose to be disposable...Its work..HARD work....Sounds like the two of you need to remember why you got together in the first place....Love---TRUE & REAL LOVE are not things that just disappear after a few arguments...Try to figure out what the two of you can do to save the marriage.And dateing want help any of that. It will just give the impression you never cared. Good luck and God Bless..

Answer 3

If you're married, you shouldn't date. What is a separation supposed to accomplish? Get back with your husband and go see a counselor who can coach the two of you on how to communicate. Communication is a skill that can be learned, so the inability to communicate is a very weak reason for breaking up a marriage.

Answer 4

Actually, it is best to not get into a new relationship until a year after your separation. You have too much emotionally to sort out and you get involved with others for the wrong reasons and it usually does not work out for the best. I'm not saying sit at home. Go out with female friends, but I would avoid dating at this point. It is much too soon. You need time to heal.

Answer 5

until you stop thinking about him everyday, I'd wait on the dating thing,,,are you getting divorced? You are still legally married as of now, think about that before you start going out with other men...

Answer 6

If you haven't had your divorce hearing yet, then yes it is to early to date. That's not fair to the men out there, they may be wanting more, and you're not going to be ready, after getting out of such a commitment. Plus, legally it's wrong...

Answer 7

5 weeks of being separated really isn't that much time and you may regret going out so soon, what if things change and you two can work it out? Then you will have to explain your actions, separated is not divorced.

Answer 8

You should wait untill you file for a divorce and get your ex out of your system anyone you go out with will be considered a rebound relationship, so just wait for awhile.

Answer 9

Number one your still married.
Number two give yourself some space and time to regroup with your own engerys and your husband with his.
Number three: Its a great thing you still love him & think about him. So it's far from over :)

Answer 10

You're only separated. Check your dating laws. So he doesn't get you for cheating.