The parents fiar? The parents donot like the boys?
2007-04-24 01:14:49 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
BECAUSE THE PARENTS KNOW THE LIFE. EVERYBODY MAY NOT TRUST FULL.
2007-04-24 02:00:08 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Besides all of the social taboos you want to blame adults for, there's always two outcomes when the boys and girls have a friendship. Either they have sex, or they don't. If they chose to have sex, there are more negative outcomes possible for girls than for boys usually. She can be used and abused. She can get pregnant, and she can catch an STD. Usually girls aren't strong enough to counter attack in case things become more difficult. I think it's only natural for parents to be way more concerned about girls having sex than boys just because many times it's easier for boys to walk away of the problem when it's not an STD. If you want to have girl friends and you are a boy, and you don't want their parents to be concerned, first gain their confidence by showing them respect, showing respect for the girl, letting them know where your home is, who your parents are. Don't expect that in one day, you bring a resume with all of this things. This is a matter of trust that you gain with time. I don't think parents are as concerned when they know the boy and their parents for a while. Instead, if you come out of the blue and want to date their girl, I can see them pouncing and defending their girl.
2007-04-24 01:38:41 · answer #2 · answered by Lourdes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are concerned about you . They do not want you to fall in unnecessary problems. If you are a teenager please maintain a certain boundary if you have boys as friends. There are some boys who in the name of friendship try to take the advantage of innocent girls like you. If you really want to make friends who are boys be careful in selecting them. Try to make your parents understand that all boys are not bad and you are big enough to choose between right and wrong. But I personally think that you should not go against your parents. Whatever they are doing they are doing it for your good will. So be careful...
2007-04-27 06:43:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The age between 13-19 are teen age: Due to the tropical hot climate, our food and etc induce the sexual urge in this age: And the boy or girl does not have the maturity to understand and think about sex: There is more chance to make mistakes at this age when they are alone:
So parents are not allowing the boys/girls fo do friendship at this age.
2007-04-24 05:27:24 · answer #4 · answered by ar.samy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its because girls at teenage age think all boys or all people are very good and tend to do alot of mistakes.
There are sincere boys and boys who take things carelessly
its all because of their ages too.
So parent are worried after their daughter committing those mistakes. Too much of friendship may end in sex , pregnancy ,
which will make them feel guilty , and commit suicide etc....
if you parents dont look after you then who will .takes why they keep a close eye on girls. the society will only blame and laugh at you and your parents if something goes wrong
after all boys got nothing to lose they will cleverly remove their heads out of all mess. and become innocent.
we say if a leaf falls on a thone or thone falls on a leaf it is the leaf that will get damaged not the thone.
better obey then
2007-04-24 03:02:38 · answer #5 · answered by janam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because, you have decided not to make friends amongst the 50% of the population whom are girls. This shows your interest in boys. When a boy is on a girl or a girl is on a boy is interested preferring the opposite sex, it will lead to love followed by pre-marital sex. Your parents shoulder the responsibility of getting you married to a handsome intelligent and honourable citizen of the country. Till then they also have to maintain your virginity. Hence, it is but natural that the parents may not like the boy friends of the girl.
In short they fear that you may be screwed before your marriage.
2007-04-24 01:22:41 · answer #6 · answered by chappani 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I understood your wack at a coherent sentence correctly, I would say its because its a parents duty to be the "guy filter" for girls. They have been though this themselfs and they know how it is to be in your shoes. Then when they grow up and have kids of their own their own fears are realised in the offspring.
Because parents protect their kids even more then they protect themselfs they are likely going to check out your friends (mainly guy friends because we apparently are the troublemakers, go figure?).
I guess you gotta realise they have your best intentions at heart, even though it seems they are destroying your social life. If they are being overprotective let it be known to them (though i doubt a kid would have a fair judgement on that).
Just try taking a walk in their shoes for once before critising
2007-04-24 01:21:25 · answer #7 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have a bad choice in the boys. Your may be too young to date and your parents know this. Your parents wants you to finish college before you get serious about a boy.
2007-04-24 01:24:24 · answer #8 · answered by Neal C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the boys want to use the girls, not love them and marry them. Boy want just fun, not the responsibility, not the baby.
2007-04-24 02:42:39 · answer #9 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the girl goes astray, the burden is on the girl and the parents. Hence, the worry and caution.
2007-04-25 01:17:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they have a fear of crossing the limit and in turn the life of their daughter may be ruined.
2007-04-27 21:45:36 · answer #11 · answered by KC G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋