we are married for 8 yrs we have 2 kids we've past many hard time but we still living together and Iam trying hard to work the thing and i want to conserve my marrige life in a good manner
2007-04-24 00:16:06 · 8 answers · asked by engine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go away on a second honeymoon. Getting away always helps.
2007-04-24 00:19:06 · answer #1 · answered by Jazzy, I Miss U Love! 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OMG, u sound like me, I too am 8 yrs together with my spouse and 2 kids and had very hard times, child loss, job loss, money probs. I am not attracted what so ever to my husband, I finally have clued in that I need help in order for me to get into the mood prior to him even getting home. I have to look outside the channel, like porno which I have never had to do before my spouse and I have had a lot of experience with men. I am with my spouse because he is the nice guy and treats me well, it's a trade off for me.
2007-04-24 08:26:31 · answer #2 · answered by Yummy♥Mummy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men see their girlfriends turn into a mother and they turn their feelings to the maternal side of the wives then and the sexual side to other women. You have to stay their girlfriends if you don't want to let them make you a mother and a housekeeper. You did not do anything wrong. It's your husband and his internal imaging from his past. Men are a box of Cracker Jacks and you never know what you are going to get inside. I'm sorry he turned away from you that way and sees you as a mother now. There's no right or wrong involved.
2007-04-24 07:39:02 · answer #3 · answered by Dovey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because of the hard time, sometimes the scars of this hard time are reason enough not to feel the same about your partner.. especially if he has hurt you deeply.. but we stay because of the kids, I know about this.. and I know that leaving is the best thing for me, but what about my kids? we can't only think about our selves this is something very common and most cases the only way to fix it is to be selfish a little and think of what you want and go on with your life, wish i can do that but cant. Good luck.
2007-04-24 07:29:58 · answer #4 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We can't answer that because we know nothing about your husband and your particular situation. Perhaps you did something to turn him off and now he's just not interested any more. That does happen, you know? Having sex has a lot to do with being "sexy" and if you can't turn him on sexually, you can't expect him to perform. It just doesn't happen like that for most guys. We need to have an erection in order to perform and if you can't help him in that respect, how do you suppose he feels. Just leave the guy alone and let him preserve his dignity.
2007-04-24 07:20:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
marriage counselling or you will be divorced soon
2007-04-24 07:18:30 · answer #6 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
And you question is???
2007-04-24 07:20:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
try more oral sex
2007-04-24 07:22:23 · answer #8 · answered by Froggie S 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋