got a wife who left me and the kids, soon, i got a girlfriend who cannot accept my kids so i dumped her, next my ex-wife tried to get back, but its already foolish to take her back again, she kept on doing that for god knows how many times. I got tired of it so i turned her down. I got my kids though but being human i also need someone to be beside me. Can anyone suggest any ways to step out of such a dilemma and forget about it easily...thanks
2007-04-24 00:11:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
kids are blessings, being with them must help you with your problem, but then again you would also need support from friends and family. start dating but dont involve in a relationship at once, (you are right to dump any girl who wouldnt accept ur kids at all, ) let time develop a good relationship and time for you to heal ur wounds. this time let love finds you. be happy and enjoy being with ur kids.
2007-04-24 00:51:17 · answer #1 · answered by laura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are plenty of dating websites.. or just go out with some mates to a singles bar.. good on you by the way for not being silly and taking back the ex wife. and for dumpimg the one who would not accept your kids. whats with that did she not know that you and ur kids are one whole package!...... anyway good to see you havent given up hope..... go out enjoy and let it just come to you . if you try too hard to find love it will never happen..... although you have had a rocky past dont let it get you down theres so much oppurtunity just waitying out there...... honestly life will get better...... GOOD LUCK
2007-04-24 00:34:25 · answer #2 · answered by littlemisssaigon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep yourself busy - go for long walks - make some new friends - make a list of goals for yourself-look things up on the internet - like letting go - moving on - forgiving & forgetting. I am really hurting myself & im just learning things myself. It takes time. Make a list of things to do & add a new thing everyday. Play games read draw write poems - remember your not alone. Hope this helps a bit...answer peoples questions on yahoo.....good luck
2007-04-24 00:31:11 · answer #3 · answered by Daytripper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wont be easy to forget but i suggest u catch up with some mates...who are preferably bachelor...and also make sure u pay alot of atttention to ur kids...
2007-04-24 00:33:20 · answer #4 · answered by angelfire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out and have fun with friends
you DO NOT need a woman to be whole
2007-04-24 00:19:38 · answer #5 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋