why life is so cruel???

Question

i've lost my mother 8 months ago and now my brother again. Untill now i am still in denial stage. asking so many questions? why these things happened to us? why we need to go through such very drastic fate? i feel unloved by God, i am in withdrawal stage now. i dont want to talk to anybody else only my family member. I envy people around me, who wear sweet smiles, and it seems they have no problems. It seems they are happy always, unlike me. So many trials that i think never over, and no ending. i feel so bitter. i dont like to talk to friends, because they will asked what happened, and i hate to remember the pain. Why?????

Answer 1

I am so sorry.
But you have to be strong and live on for both of them I am sure they would want you to do that.
Do not try to forget them remember them let them inspire you to achieve even greater things in life by dedicating everything you do to them.

Keep well and take care of yourself.

And SMILE ^_^

Answer 2

I'm so sorry for your loss and I know how hard it is to carry on after losing those you love. I have lost so many people in my life and it feels like the pain will never go away. Actually, you will always miss them, your heart will hurt from time to time, however, things will get better, I promise. Try to focus on the good memories you had with them and fill your thoughts with that. Live your best life in honor of those you've lost. If you look hard enough, there is joy to be found in every day. Be thankful for the time you had with them. It's ok to feel like you don't want to talk about it, but at some point you really need to confide in someone you trust and let those feelings out. You never know what people around you are going through. Even though they wear a smile on the outside, many people are suffering on the inside. You are not alone! God bless you.

Answer 3

I'm really sorry for your loss. I don't know why bad things happen, nobody does. The pain WILL lessen, I know that is hard to believe at the moment. Most people will have problems either sooner or later in their lives, don't be fooled by their smiles.All I can think is to try and get into some sort of philosophy, read about grief and how to get through it. I do not know any more if there is a God but we can all only hope that there is a reason for our suffering. Hope things get better for you . xxxx

Answer 4

You are going through one of the worst stages of your life and I'm sorry about your loss. Life can turn us up or turn us down. It just IS and our job is to survive it until it's over. Those smiles you see on others may not last forever because everyone gets their shot at being torn apart. You be strong and come out on the other side of this. Reach out when you are alone. Try to contact the highest possible most positive force in the universe and see who shows up. You need to be alone to do that and hang on until an answer comes. Be sensitive to it.

Answer 5

read the death and grieving studys by cubler ross, i think her first name was emily.......emily cubler ross. this may help you understand what you are in for.

also suffering is just pain with a lack of acceptance that there is nothing you can do to change the past. practice acceptance today and chose an easier path.

Answer 6

aw, well my brother went on drugs when i was in 3rd grade, my grandpa, aunt, and dog all died a year or two before that, and my bros friend and he was also mine, got ran over in an alcholic incident, when i was in 6th grade, which left us shaken. oh i lost so many, i know it hurts, but look at the positive side, there watching over us! right? they WANT us to be happy. be optomistic life is too short!

e-mail me if u want =)

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Answer 7

why life is so cruel? because the world has too many freaks..