what is the hardest decision you've had to make ??

Question

One that has affected you in all ways possiable but the decition was for the benifit of someone else ???? If you tell me , ill tell you and maybe we can help each other.

Answer 1

Mine was to decide to be with my current husband, even though he had a vasectomy and I wanted children, also he is 17 years older than me, my family definitely objected to our relationship, which can be hard but I am pretty mature so it all works out and now they like him a lot and realize that he is a great provider and treats me great!!....anyways we had to decide after five years of being together whether or not to get married and if it could work,....well things have been great, been married a Little over a year now and he had vasectomy reversal which is slowly but surely working out for us....they just need to swim harder LOL

Answer 2

Many years ago I received a great job offer, but the consequence would have been to move to another country. Not just for a few month or a year... it would have meant to move away for long term.
It was such a great opportunity, a fantastic job offer, you know all the prestige and responsibility I longed for and with this salery I would have been able to adapt a real high living standart.
But well, I was in love and my boyfriend couldn´t move away for familiy reasons... and although he always said that I should take the opertunity and we would go on being together I refused... and didn´t accept the job.
My parents called me everything: Bloody idiot, unreasonable, saying that I destroying my future....
Well, now my boy friend and me are married since over 10 years and I can say: Thank god I took this decision.
Now I am in a similar job not earning that high wages I have been offered then, but still it´s a really good income and the most important thing is, that I am absolutly happy with my private life...

Answer 3

Hardest decision I've made is to remain single and move away so as to make other's life easier.

Paving way for others who are so desperate to make their lives better no matter if they had to walk all over me. It gives a feeling that I did something good for these wonderful people.

I think my decision would help my girl find a better person than me, help my parents get rid of a responsibility and my sister who is so desperate to climb the social ladder forgetting her 22 years old relationship with her brother and it would help those people and will make them feel great about themselves

Answer 4

Not pursue something with my probable soulmate. I couldn't b/c we were best friends and losing the friendship would be so devastating and I have a long-term b/f and a 3 year old son and he has a 3 year old daughter and a 1 1/2 year old son. I feel in my heart that he and I were meant to be together but I know that it would hurt too many people and there would be sooo much working against us. And now he's married (he met her and married her about 2 months later) and I still have some feelings for him, but I just keep them to myself.

Answer 5

Being the only daughter of my parents, my parents always tried to fulfill their dreams from me. I did all what my parents wanted me to do, And i think what ever i have gained today is due to their efforts and my faith in them.
Even I never purchased a dress of my own choice and education i did with their choice and i was successfull always.
The hardest decision of mine was to marry a person who was not that much educated like me.
It was just like playing a gamble and i succeeded, it was not only benificial for me but my parents will always be with me, nodoubt i faced many ups and downs but the courage in me to bound all my relations made a strong will for me to cope up.
Touch wood my positive thinking helped me in taking the hardest decision of my life.
Every one should always be ready for the hardest decision as you can't grow without playing with your dreams.

I appreciate the question asked.

Answer 6

The hardest decision I made was not to ever get married after I came to know that I was infertile.

Answer 7

many people have said many things, i would say, letting go something or someone that u have is the hardest decision. one has to make this sort of decisions in our life, whether it is your love, friend, dream job,or homeland.
people have the tendency to hold on things, whether it's harming them or benefiting them. but this is life and events don't obey our wishes, we have to take hard decisions in our lives.
i am going through this sort of situation in my life. i am deeply in love with someone, this is for second time i fell in love. after my first break-off, i was living a lonely detached life. this person came in to my life and i felt i have found my soulmate.
but now it feels like every thing has changed, this person no more looks like my soul mate, ideally i should let him go. but i am still trying things to work out. after having done many sacrifices for him, it's hard to let him go.

Answer 8

My best friend wanted to pursue the same career as me; for she wasn't ready to part with me for anything.I knew she wanted to go for Medicals, her parents too wanted that.But I wanted her to be with me too & didn't wanna let go of her.
But one fine evening I convinced myself & made her promise me she would go for Medicals.
It's been two years after that.She no more needs me,she has changed a lot, but I'm happy that I was clear to my conscience that day.Though it was painful but I've grown up a lot as a person, without her.
:D

Answer 9

The hardest decision is that when parents insists us to marry the person whom they hv selected for us (me). Wherein we would hv already engaged in true love. we cant able to reveal about my love or to accept the person

Answer 10

mine was choosing if i would wait for my bf 2 return 2 me from across the country in 2 years