It is said that its only gay if you take it... but just letting it jiggle in there for a while is still very gay... what are your thoughts
2007-04-23 18:20:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Gay is actually a reincarnation of the traditional 'third gender' space that has always existed in all societies, in all ages, except in Christian societies in the west.
Originally, the third gender space was a honoured space for feminine gendered males, whatever their sexuality was.
As societies started forcing men to mate with women (very few men mated with women regularly in nature ------- surprised!), they started to play dirty gender and sexual politics. One of the first victims were the third gendered people. The space was now defined in terms of transgendered males who take it in, especially exclusively. they were also known to be promiscuous.
All through the world, eversince, this third gender or 'gay' space has been known by different names: "Catamite" in the ancient Greece, Hijra in medieval India, Kathoey in Thailand, Pandaka in ancient south and south east asia, Lady boy and several such names all over the world (except in cut off tribal societies where third gender still was only about transgenderd without any reference to their sexuality).
Non transgendered males who desired men (whether exclusively or not) have always been considered mainstream (and thus straight!) and part of the 'men's gender' by these societies where sex and love between men was very common ------ whether openly or underground.
There has been a constrant struggle between the FORCES OF HETEROSEXUALISATION (which was created by empowering of male-female sex by society's obsession with increasing reproduction beyond what occurs naturally!) on the one hand....... and MEN'S SPACES on the other. The former has been trying to redefine the men's space totally in terms of 'sexuality for women' so that manhood itself would mean desring women (and not just reproducing)...... and to redefine the third gender space totally in terms of sexuality for men, which would deny manhood to any man who desired men.
After industrialisation the forces of heterosexualistion got the power and the opportunity to redefine social spaces, and they created the concept of sexual orientation with the use of which they started isolating same-sex desires in the mainstream community.
They could only do it because they had first destroyed the men's spaces by heterosexualisating them, otherwise men woulod never have allowed this to be done. Men had already been rendered incapable of voicing their needs or concerns about same-sex sexuality by the way manhood has been defined.
But still, since the essence of the 'gay' space is third gender, mainly feminine gendered (incuding trans, effeminate and masculine-acting males) who like 'taking it in' relate to the word. So much so that even liking another man is considered to be equivalent to a desire to be entered (which most men who like men don't) and thus to be 'gay'.
Being 'gay' is not just a sexual identity, it is an important tool of the politics of manhood through which men are banished from manhood and the mainstream male community (straight).
Some non-effeminate guys and those who are not into receptive sex also get fooled by the definition and adopt it (especially when their sexual need is exclusively for men), but they are never comfortable with the gay identity and fitting in is a constant struggle. Most men who like men (and they are the majority in the straight world) however prefer to suppress or hide their sexual need for men, and exaggerate their sexual need for women, rather than acknowledge their sexual nned for men and be forced with the 'gay' label.
Gays think such men are 'incapabale of accepting their sexuality' but gays are just being convenient. Gay space is fit only for the third sex, not for men.
2007-04-26 19:52:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only gay if you take it. I've had it jiggle in me plenty of times, but I'm certainly not gay.
2007-04-24 01:25:22 · answer #2 · answered by BiggusDickus 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
LoL @ jiggle it in there.
Taking it and Pounding it BOTH make you gay.
Denying it makes you APPEAR not gay.
Accepting it makes you much happier.
2007-04-24 01:36:42 · answer #3 · answered by DelectibleD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, there was a time where the one who take it was the one who was considered gay but that has changed.
2007-04-24 01:28:36 · answer #4 · answered by What'd You Say? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Either way that is gay. If you are a guy doing anything sexual with another guy it is gay. There are no exceptions.
2007-04-24 01:27:03 · answer #5 · answered by Alan S 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Pitching or Catching for the same team is GAY!
2007-04-24 01:23:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
your gay either way, personaly any guy who is the bottom is more of a man then the top they couldn't handle the pain. and any guy who takes it is more of a man than most men.
2007-04-24 01:25:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think most guys will stick their "tool" into any hole that will help them to achieve orgasm. It has a lot more to do with sexual release and pleasure than it does with sexual orientation.
2007-04-24 09:29:03 · answer #8 · answered by augen blich 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's gay if you're even seriously thinking about it. How about that?
2007-04-24 01:23:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
hahaha what?!?!
take it, receive it, give it, your gay!
whic is great because i have a lot of gay friends and i love them to death! more than my straight friends! :)
2007-04-24 01:24:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋