It's just I am so tired of people and there problems, I have enough of my own, and I know people are going to eventually run into certain problems but I am really tired of hearing about it. Am I fit to be a friend?
Or should I just tell my(online) friend that "listen I am tired of you and all your problems. One minute everything is going fine, the next min you are having troubles w/some guy", I don't like guys anyway so it just makes me mad to here about all that guy drama and especially when I told her to leave the guys alone. She is too young, she is only 15 and already has guy troubles. What should I do?
2007-04-23 16:57:42 · 7 answers · asked by ms.l_thoms 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
yes, you're fit to be a friend, just not to a needy, whining kid. block her. if you only talk to her online, you'll never have to see her and explain yourelf.
:o)
2007-04-23 17:03:19 · answer #1 · answered by dmarie2101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is 15 and she is having guy problems. You right she is young for this. But it sounds as if your having problems yourself. Meet you friend and discuss your problems together and see if you guys can up with a conclusion for each others problems. And maybe you'll find your more fit than anybody to be her friend.
2007-04-24 00:06:40 · answer #2 · answered by Andrew G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are fit to be a friend, it just happens to be that your friend is really needy and selfish and only thinking about herself and her problems. she's not fit to be a friend.
i don't know the best way to solve the problem, but when i was in that situation last, i made myself "less available", so like when she would IM me, i would say i have to go because i had something else to do. i just was less available to her, so i think she got that point and went to the next victim to complain about her life to. by the way, her life was NOT miserable or anything-- she had everything she wanted. she just needed to complain.
2007-04-24 00:08:52 · answer #3 · answered by frazzlesnap 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well saying exactly that to her would be rude, but I do understand what you're saying. listening to people's prollems online can be excruciating. if you've tried to offer her constructive criticism and alternatives and she's ignoring you, then you have to cut that drama from your life but instead of telling her off I would just quit responding.
2007-04-24 00:04:24 · answer #4 · answered by Danielle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop answering her emails and find a new friend....being a loner ain't half bad sometimes!
2007-04-24 00:02:05 · answer #5 · answered by deb 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would just ignore them from now on. seems like some people just want to bring you down, especially if your happy.
2007-04-24 00:02:04 · answer #6 · answered by rhonda3826 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow
not easy
find other friends who aren't so needy
2007-04-24 00:01:18 · answer #7 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋