im ugly but i like some1??

Question

I think im ugly but mostly all the guys flirt with me and it looks like theyr interested but never like ask me out or anythin... i think im fat and like evry once in a few months i get called fat by guys, and it REALLY bothers i'v done diets even starved myself( not to extreme) i go 2 the gym sometimes... i dont kno wat else to do for a guy to like me?? plzz dont be mean

Answer 1

if you complain about your looks.. thats what people are going to pay attention to... say you have a crooked tooth that a guy has never noticed before... if all you do is complain about it, eventually he will notice it to..
guys want a girl who is comfortable with themselves.. and even if you arent... fake it.... the more you force yourself to say that you are pretty, and that you are happy with yourself... the more you will end up believing it
you have to be happy with yourself before someone else can be happy with you

Answer 2

First off darling, if the guys flirt with you, you obviously can't be that ugly. That has to be the case, as your mind's fairly warped. Starving yourself is so not the right course of action.
And second, why do you NEED a guy to like you? I honestly think you need to do a bit of work on yourself first, knowing that you're beautiful, inside and out, letting yourself be comfortable with you. Guys only make it worse, as they'll like you one minute and leave you at the drop of the hat when something better comes along. You canNOT let them change the way you feel about yourself, otherwise you'll just end up getting hurt all the time.

If you still are insecure about your body, try going to the gym twice or three times a week, to get toned and healthy the right way. That'll also release endorphins in your body, which will lead to you being happier.

Answer 3

Woahhhhh first off, you're the first girl in the world to think she's ugly. You're just unlucky.

In almost every girl's life, she gets told a million times that shes beautiful. It's a commonly known guy thing that 99.9% of girls thikn they're the shiznit. It used to be 100% but you just changed that <_<

It really sucks that anyone told you that you aren't beautiful, but eh what gives.

As a guy...i've seen ugly chicks become good looking. If you're fat, then it's up to you to fix that. I rec. getting a membership to a gym and get a properly certified personal trainer to help you out (watch out for the fakers). It's worth it, I used to be fat, and I had a personal trainer help me and now my life is healthy and I love it every time I look in the mirror w/ my shirt off. Commitment isn't all that hard, it's easier than it looks.

What guys call you fat? Seriously...only a super-stud can pull that off, all you gotta do is go on the offensive and be like 'Yea? Well I bet you aren't getting any pussy, and maybe thats cause you're a huge ********!' <-- that word is D1ck head

nobody will fcuk w/ you after that.

Get some tan healthy legs, wear some short shorts and the guys will start looking, then you could initiate the dating. Most high school guys are really shy nowadays. Plus they won't try if it seems impossible.

Answer 4

Well I've found your first problem--your self esteem is so low you can't even get a solid grasp on yourself. Whenever you start a question with "I'm ugly but..." it's never a good sign. Unless you start waking up to the fact that you don't need to base your worth on beauty, you're going to drive the guys away.

Guys like girls who are confident yet humble.

What should you do? Don't starve yourself and stop depending on others to make you feel better about yourself. You ARE driving the guys away with such a negative attitude.

Answer 5

Truth be told, nobody is completely utterly ugly. You may not be a raving beauty, but I bet you're not as bad as you say. What I think you need is some confidence. Quit focusing on your weight, some guys even like a girl with a little meat on her bones. Some like girls with a lot of meat on her bones. Get plenty of excercise, keep yourself well groomed and clean. Decide what you think are your best features and think of ways to enhance them or 'show them off' Dress attractively and stylishly, and not like a slut. You say you're overweight. Don't make the mistake of wearing clothes that are too small, they will only make you appear fatter. Forget about the 'size' of a garment and just wear what fits properly. Hair is important. You can do w/out a lot of makeup, but hair needs to be a top priority every day. Get a good cut from a top stylist - but get one that you feel comfortable styling yourself....and do it everyday and keep your hair clean!! Focus on improving yourself, intellectually, physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually. This is how you improve your confidence level. Volunteering to work with people also works wonders for confidence building, so look into tutoring programs etc. Please quit trying so hard to be what others want 'on the outside'. Its shallow and you're worth more than that. You want to attract someone who will value what's inside of you and of course appreciate what's outside but not necessarily require perfection.

Answer 6

well for one, your self confidence is nil, and that is a big turn off for most guys. Most guys want a girl with at least some confidence in herself. If you don't like yourself how can you expect others to? If there are things you don't like about yourself, change them, if they are within your power to. Start eating healthier, go to the gym more often than "sometimes" start reading up on things that interest you so that you can carry on a conversation with others, and take care of those things first. Then when your confidence builds, you can think about attracting guys and getting others to like you. Good luck! You are young, you'll learn!

Answer 7

Offer to put out. Go hangout at a bar around 2 AM Sunday morning. Every female get picked up no matter how bad she is. There is alway somebody. Now guys on the other hand that do not have a good game go home alone.

Answer 8

Shannon, never ever think that you are ugly!! it lowers your confidence and you will look unattractive to guys if you dont have confidence. And the guys that call you fat must be really really unsecure about themselves to have to point the finger at someone else. If you want this guy to like you just be yourself!!! and always always have a smile on your face girl!! and if he still doesnt like you then dont sweat it , there are plenty more guys in this big world!! trust me there are!

Answer 9

I can relate, except for thinking im fat.
But anyways, guys are jerks. Atleast a lot of them are. The other ones that arent jerks are just i guess shy.
I think im the uglest person on earth, but i try my hardest not to let that get me down. But its hard at times.
I like this one guy, but just because im ugly he wont ask me out or even talk to me. Guys dont become mature until there liek 30. So pretty much if anyone is fat or ugly its gonna be awhile until you get a date. Yea it sucks but you just have to suck it up. Its not our faults we were born ugly or whatever. We are who we are and if guys dont like it then with the hell with them. I just wish and just have to understand that they would see what is on the inside. So dont give up, youll get that special someone someday.

Answer 10

the first thing i will suggest u not to starve urself and if u r not gettin good results by goin to gym as well then try to do some abs exercises or yoga, ab exercise makes u feel confident with thin waist.
if u want to look attractive, go to a professional and get ur hair styled up.
next is concentrate on ur dressin sense, without exposure also u can look attractive.
take advice from ur friends.

Answer 11

If your crush is in some clubs, sign up for them too, then you might get to know him better. You're young, so maybe guys don't really care about personality. Maybe excercise some more, and maybe wear your hair a certain way. But don't put on TONS of makeup, because that's a huge turn-off for guys. Just put on some eyeliner, and lipgloss, and you'll look great!